I'm not 33. I'm 43. I'm sorry for listing my age incorrectly, but when I did list how old I am, all I got was 60 year olds hitting on me. I'm looking to meet someone close to my age, who has already had children and doesn't want more. I know I look young, but I can't have them, and dating 30 year olds who haven't had kids or want more, is not getting me anywhere. I need someone who is divorced and has had their kids already. I would happily be a stepmom. I would love a family.
I love my family, friends, photography, my sweet cat Finny, down comforters, Diet Coke, Apple computers, animals, movies, swimming pools, summertime, though I admit I am excited for fall and the fun the holidays and cooler weather bring, I am a very feminine girl, who loves all things pretty and fashionable, but also enjoys doing things that aren't always girl-ish, meaning I can get out and trek through snow in snowshoes or go hike or shoot a gun and have a great time. I will admit my preference will always be a comfortable situation over roughing it though. A nice hotel room would win over camping in a tent in my world, and I'm telling you that because some guys prefer a girl who likes to rough it a bit more.
I love laughing, being lighthearted and having fun. I I make taking care of myself physically a priority, and I hope the guy I'd date would do the same. I really want the person I'm with to feel proud to have me on his arm.
I believe that love should be built on mutual respect, patience, complete trust, communication and wonderful chemistry and attraction to each other :). I also know that getting to know someone over time is very important, and I don't want to jump into anything too quickly. I want to learn who someone really is before committing to a relationship. Let me state also, I am NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOKUP.
One of my main passions is photography. I love creating beauty. I love expressing myself in a creative way. It's easy to figure out that I relate well with those who love the arts.
Who I'd love to meet:
I prefer sweet, stylish, compassionate guys who are gentlemen. Clean shaven or a little scruff is hot, more is not for me. I get along best with guys around my age or slightly younger. Just a few of my turn ons - a GREAT smile! a nice dresser, fit, someone who truly enjoys some of the finer things in life but who can go play as well....and someone who loves to laugh! I WANT to be spoiled by my guy. I also believe reciprocity in a relationship and doing what I can to make my man happy as well.
A new weakness: Muscles. Gosh dang it. Guys who work out and take care of themselves, combined with intelligence is so hot. I used to judge, thinking that wasn't possible, but it is. I've learned not to assume. This isn't a deal breaker, but goodness, just like you all want a pretty, fit woman...it's the same.
I'd also like to meet someone who does live in the modern age of texting and social networking. I do a lot of that for my business and for fun - but some men are perplexed by it...it seems like especially men who were married for a long time...but it's not only fun, it's very important for what I do for a living.
YOU MUST LIVE IN STATE...to live out of state is torturous and I can't do it any more. Also there are lots of people out there who aren't who they say they are, so I'm very aware of that. Also please have current picturesl. Most of mine are very recent. And profiles with one photo of the person and 10 of sunsets just don't work. Nor does the 'I'm so 'high profile' I can't post a picture' excuse...that's a quick delete.
So, if we have a some things in common, drop me a line :)