I'm looking to meet REAL people. No agendas- no marriage on the first date- No expectations to get in the way. I grew up in Sacramento and Dallas, and have been back in norcal almost 4 years now. I'm your standard 36 yo professional-but actually= there's nothing standard about me- Still like a good bar now and then and having fun, but old enough to know that it's real lucky to meet someone on the same page there. I'm relaxed and like to put people at ease- which w/ my height can take some time. I've also got a type A perfectionist side that needs to do things.
You- should be open- my emotions are on my sleeve- and if who i'm dating is too guarded- it's probably not going to work. Athletic, or at least interested in your health enough to be a priority. You don't have to love everything i do- just don't keep me from them. I am the laziest person who HAS to keep moving that you've ever seen- i know that makes no sense! but it's true:) Be interesting. Smart. Fun. GENUINE. REAL. OPEN. Relaxed. Confident. Be flexible- my schedule is very random- so if you can't meet up on a wednesday-or do things on the fly- i can only say i hope it'll work!! (not my fault :) I Can't wait to have a more normal schedule- but it's not my life right now- and my life offers benefits others don't.) Developed- and driven to be more developed. Patient. Kind. Generous. Unafraid. Speak to homeless people like they're human- Have perspective. -Don't be agreeable to the point you lose yourself. Be happy!! and fun! I like energetic people who encourage me. Get me going and accept it back. I like friends and relationships where we motivate each other, but don't lose the easy going. And i like people who aren't intimidated by what you just read -or by me:) Can you tell me to relax and actually get me to do it? (smiling) time will tell. In the end you have to know who you are and be confident enough to be it.
I'd like to find that person who was made for me-just like everyone would. And this is one of the first years where I can say I'm honestly open to settling down- But I'm still not stressed about. I have great faith that my life will work out- I don't have to know you're the one on the first date or the 30th-but i've had more dates ruined by one of us trying too hard. We'll have fun, be ourselves and see how it goes.
;) hope to meet you.