After much contemplation, I have decided to expand my horizons and give Match a try. As a therapist, my professional opinion to my patients would be, “Absolutely, what have you got to lose? After all, you may find a new friend, a great lover, or a fantastic partner." So, here’s to following my own advice…
I felt a bit awkward about describing myself, so instead, I asked five friends (three male, two female) to provide some insight. My male friends said ‘pretty, sexy, petite and feminine’. The women said ‘loving, intelligent,sensitive and successful ( Aww…what good friends!)’. Naturally, I was sincerely flattered by their remarks; however, I am well aware of how men’s and women's brains function differently.
Originally, I am from South America but I have lived here most of my life. I am a bit older than my stated profile age but look much younger . In fact, I enjoy sharing stories with my girlfriends about being approached by 30 something men. And although I find it very charming, it is ultimately not what I desire-I prefer age appropriate men.
I was happily married for many years to an Irish- American sweetheart-and lost him to cancer. I have two grown children who are both independent, wonderful kids. Now, I get to enjoy the role of being both a mom and a friend. Socially, I have great group of friends. We have lots of fun doing all kinds of activities: boating (pontoon boats) in my community, happy hours, dinners, concerts ,walks..... and, at times , laughing at each other. To further elaborate on my opening comment, I am a child and family therapist and I have a private practice in Northern Virginia. However, in order to have time to travel and to take short trips to the Eastern Shore, I have decided to do less clinical work and mostly function in a management role.
I am absolutely passionate about dancing! I am as happy dancing in a long gown at an embassy ball as I am dancing in home wearing jeans with someone, or, even by myself. I also love people, especially kids, and thus I am involved with a number of children’s charities.
Based on my own experience, I am happiest with a man who is loving, honest, and able to express his emotions. Someone who shows kindness and sensitivity toward others is very attractive. Of course, being able to laugh at one’s mistakes and the mistakes of loved ones is always a good trait! Physically, I like to stay fit, and I take good care of my physical, emotional, and financial stability. I am definitely seeking the same from my partner so that we can maintain our healthy lifestyles.
I believe that a strong foundation for a good relationship is based on love, trust, honesty, commitment , mutual support, passion, and finally, just having fun together, even when doing simple things. But, if we are not a good romantic match, well... a new friend is also good.
