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32 year old man
Sneads Ferry, North Carolina, United States

Seeking:
women 22-32
Within:
75 Miles of Sneads Ferry, North Carolina, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
I'll tell you later
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

If you only know one thing about me, it should be what I mean by that headline. Two incomplete people cannot join to make a complete person. I don't believe it works that way. You cannot find wholeness in another person if you don't have wholeness alone. This may seem counter-intuitive, but I believe it so. Therefore one 'complete' person joining with another of the same will create something that is greater than the sum of its parts, which is the reason for the capitalization. I have a son who is about the closest thing to the essence of my world that I can imagine. If I am not whole (e.g. happy, healthy, etc.) on my own, in my own skin, as a man, I can't hope to be the father he deserves. Does that mean I'm independent and think of myself first? Nope. I don't think someone like that would qualify for my definition of 'complete'. In our vulnerability, we are strong. I can be strong if need be, but I am often just as vulnerable to my amazing little boy as he is to me. Of course he doesn't know that yet, but when he realizes it, he'll have a valuable lesson for life - on being a human, a man, and a father. To fill the holes in oneself and be complete, I think that giving of oneself is key. Relationships aren't 50/50 - they're 100/100.
If you read and understand that top paragraph, you know the most important part about this profile. You can stop now, but if you're interested and have a spare week, feel free to read on ;-)

I am looking for a woman who is free. Free from double standards and free from drama of the box that people try to put her in.
I am looking for someone who is a free spirit, free enough to play like a child, yet mature, classy and has good judgement. I search for someone who is free enough to question what she thinks she knows and ask the right questions of my model of the world. The ideal would be a woman who is free of the limiting belief that she has it all figured out and free enough to accept that in someone else.

I can't emphasize enough how incredibly attractive a confident, intelligent woman is! I'm talking about the person who can dazzle me with unique perspectives that I wouldn't have normally considered. Smart people see the world differently, and I want to soak it up!

As you can see, I'm divorced. I think few people have lived life without accumulating baggage of some sort. Mine is minor, but I don't deny that some exists. I expect 95% of people out there will have some as well. I don't mind that. I don't expect anyone to be perfect, providing one condition is met:
You must be willing to accept yourself as a person who makes mistakes but can and will correct them, when able. Please read that again. It's so important. I'm constantly working to improve myself, even though sometimes it seems like I hit a wall, and I hope to find someone who is also working to that end. The person I am looking for will also know how to acknowledge when she has made a mistake and apologize accordingly. It takes a big person to admit fault, but I'm a big person and I admit when I'm wrong. I why would I settle for someone who wouldn't give me that same respect?

And lastly, I am looking for a team mate - an advocate. I am looking for someone who will have my back and help me up if I stumble. That's what I'll do for her. Let's explore what this world has to offer - together.

Anything less is unacceptable for a lasting relationship. I may meet some people out there who are wonderful women who I have fun with and respect as a person, but I may not wish to have a long term relationship with them. I don't even know if I would find a long term relationship period. I will be honest if such is the case. I expect the same from anyone else I meet. I am not opposed to dating and enjoying your company temporarily. It's about the experience, and if we have good memories and enrich our lives, it's worth it. Wouldn't you agree? ;

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Football, Inline skating, Martial arts, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, Hockey
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I absolutely love dogs. Best. Animals. Ever.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Gemini
College:
I'll tell you later
Favorite things:

I am a huge martial arts fan - have been all my life. I love to watch UFC, and MMA is really the only sport I actively try to follow.
That said, I love most forms of physical activity. I'm a former collegiate athlete and would love to compete again

Last read:

My most recent book is The Ethical . Wow.
I listen to a lot of audiobooks. It may seem nerdy, but I can often learn a great deal during time that I normally can't read, so I'll take that trade any day :)

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, Full-figured, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

I can best be described as agnostic. I know many won't like to hear this, but I'm just not a religious guy. I believe that my spiritual journey can be influenced by many different faiths, but in the end, it's a personal journey unbound by doctrine.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I'm currently working on a graduate degree.

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