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34 year old woman
Chesapeake, Virginia, United States

Seeking:
men 30-40
Within:
50 Miles of Chesapeake, Virginia, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Hello; thanks for stopping by
About me...I am at a point where I have created a life for myself and I am ready to share it with someone. I have a good job, a home, family, friends...the perfect partner in crime would make it complete. I say that I'm old enough to know better but still young enough to get away with it sometimes. I take care of my responsibilities but I like that I can pretty much pick up and go whenever the mood strikes. I enjoy being spontaneous. I'd like someone who is honest, trustworthy, smart, loyal, caring, easygoing, and mature. I can be a little bit of a firecracker, so you need to be able to keep up :-)
I work in defense contracting. My job keeps me on my toes. I'm responsible for a variety of things, so I am rarely bored. I get to travel too, which is nice. I am close to my parents, and my friends are like family to me. I am demonstrative with my feelings toward them: If I love someone, I say it. I'm a hugger. I enjoy doing things with and for those closest to me. I am a very caring and thoughtful person, and I would like someone who is the same way. It would be nice to be with someone who also has a close family relationship.
I like to be active indoors and out, and I like to relax as well, preferably with someone special. I love food and going out for meals, and I'm very into cooking/baking/mixing drinks. A mix of going out and staying in is my speed...I don't feel the need to be in a bar just because it's a certain day of the week.
I love to laugh and be goofy. I can be all business when I need to be, and I like stimulating conversation, but in general I find that humor is key to dealing with most of what life throws at us. I want a partner who doesn't take himself or life too seriously. I am a very positive person and don't like negativity in my life. Drama kings need not apply. I'm not that uptight that I can't make fun of myself. "Confident, not cocky" are words that I say in reference to a desirable partner. There most definitely is a difference. I want a man who can go to a social event with me and can hold his own for a few minutes if I step away. I also think it's fun to be the couple at a party or event that makes people wish they were having as much fun as we are.
I value time with my friends and cannot be with someone who doesn't respect that. I am of the opinion that you can have your guys' nights and I can have my girls' nights without the need to constantly call/text/check in. If trust is there, there's no need to smother one another. Of course, my serious partner is priority, but I still believe that it is important to maintain some separate activities to avoid staleness in a relationship.
I'm not looking for a hookup, nor do I want to be someone to help you get over your ex, or someone to just keep you from being alone. I am looking for someone with whom I can have a serious and potentially long-term relationship.
I am a bit of a contradiction regarding traditional and modern traits. I am educated, intelligent, strong, independent, and love getting down and dirty at the gym and being pushed to the edge of my comfort zone. I just signed up for my first Tough Mudder with some ladies from my Cross Fit gym. At the same time, I am a girly-girl who likes manicures, heels, cooking, baking, laundry, and cleaning (This is not an invitation, mama's boys!) I definitely have elements of sweetness and sass. It keeps things interesting :-)
The foundation of a solid relationship is friendship, respect, and communication. If you can't express yourself in terms of your feelings, what you do and don't want, and if you're one to run when things get a little rough, please move on. I want a partner who can enjoy the good times and work through the occasional bad times.
I believe the only way to find out about the thing that can't be matched through a database--chemistry--is by meeting to feel the dynamic. This can tell me more about a person in 30 seconds than weeks of emailing/texting/phone calls.

Interests:
Book club, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Bowling, Football, Dancing, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I have a cocker spaniel who is a bit high strung at first, but he is very loving once he calms down. He is 12, so that only takes about 3 minutes. I'm a life long animal lover!

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Libra
College:
Longwood University, Farmville, VA
For fun:

Cross fit training- I try to go 5 times a week; cooking and baking; spending time with friends and family, whether that is at home, a bar, or going to dinner; traveling; correcting grammar & punctuation (can't help it); live music; paddle boarding

Favorite hot spots:

I enjoy traveling and tend to lean toward warmer locales. I'd love to go to Greece and Italy, and I absolutely loved Hawaii. I like Bardo, Catch 31, Mahi's, Waterman's, and places that are lesser known. Anywhere can be fun with the right company :-)

Favorite things:

Music, sleep, coffee, good food (at home or out), being outside in warm weather, exercise, my shoe collection, collecting recipes, thoughtfulness, my dog, a good challenge, optimism, time with my friends and family, cocktails, good grammar, flowers.

Last read:

When I have the time, I love the classics, James Patterson, and chick lit for lighter reading. I loved the Larsson series. Right now I am reading "The Hours." I also read cooking magazines with a gossip magazine thrown in for some mindless reading.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
5'6" (167cms) to 8'0" (243cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military
No preference

I work for a large government contractor in Marketing and Business Development. I get to travel a fair amount, so I can't complain much. Recent trips were to Boston, Orlando, DC, Rhode Island, Miami, and Vegas to name a few.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

I was raised Catholic but am open to other Christian Beliefs.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have a BA in English and had secondary teaching licensure for VA. I have an MA in in English and writing. Basically, I fell asleep reading a heavy book for 6 years...

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