Down to earth as I am. Not into material things. I gotta be honest, I'm not made of money. I make a decent living, but hate buying things on credit. Material girls and Barbie dolls need not apply. Honesty is a big plus. I'm in my forties, I can handle the truth. Relationships don't work unless they go both ways. Confidence is the sexiest attitude. Women who bad-mouth another woman walking across a room for wearing slutty clothes or too much make-up or whatever are annoying. Don't concern yourself with strangers or pass judgement on them. It's a definite turn-off. Be yourself. If I don't like the real you, make it apparent right away. Then neither one of us waste time. This may sound harsh, but thats the way I feel. I'm really a great guy, see for yourself.