Thank you for visiting my profile. I appreciate your time spent reading my whole profile, and getting to know me.
First and foremost I am a SINGLE Father of two beautiful young ladies. My oldest is 19 and my youngest is six going on 12!
I am an Senior Investigator with one of the major banks by profession specializing in White-Collar crime / Anti-money laundering.
I have been told I give much of myself to a relationship and also to others. I personally jump both feet into a relationship... I do not believe doing something half-way.
I believe we should treat others as we want to be treated. Ethics and morals are very important to me... I have been asked aren't they the same and they are not. Ethics are what rules/guidelines/laws that we know are right, and morals are applying those to the way we live.
I believe in being the best parent we know how to be and I also believe the main purpose of a parent is to teach our children the survival skills to survive the world's challenges and to help them along the way.
The two most important people to me are my two daughters, although I would LOVE to include a Woman and who may come with her.
I value life, love, happiness, and I RESPECT the woman I am with. I will do anything for the ones I love and my/their friends.
I am a great listener and enjoy trying to help others and playing it forward.
I am much more a giver than a taker, but I want to find a woman that is giver.
I do not need a relationship, but I want, would enjoy and would value one. I want a woman that when we leave each other, that one of the foremost things in our minds is we can't wait to be back together.
I truly believe that people have to physically be attracted to each other as well as intellectually.
Please do not contact me if you have not had children. I am sorry, but being a teacher is not the same as being a parent.
I believe there is such a thing as soul mates, and I also believe that people may not be instant soul mates at face value but through getting to know each other, that lifetime relationship may be revealed.
I’m really good at listening to others, cuddling, touching, kissing, flirting, fitting in, being a best friend... and many other things that you will have to find out if you get the chance.
Please contact me if you are not psycho, needy, co-dependent, looking to be number one (My two girls come first), immature, in possession of some special gift otherwise known as a STD, oh yeah did I say psycho?
Otherwise, may your quest be fruitful and you find the one that puts that sparkle in your eye/constant smile on your face, treats your child(ren) at least as good as their own, and makes every moment you are awake a gift.
***TIPS FOR ONLINE DATING FROM A PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR/PRIVACY ADVOCATE***
1.) Never use the same username as you use elsewhere.
2.) Never use pictures you use elsewhere (i.e. Social networking sites)
3.) Never use pictures of your minor children (due to crazy people out there).
4.) Never use e-mail to communicate that you use elsewhere due to the possibility of the person possibly finding you elsewhere.
5.) Never give your cellphone number out until you are ready for someone to possibly know everything about you...
If you have questions feel free to ask.... ;-)