I moved back to Chicago from California about a year ago.
A couple things I have noticed since I have been back.
1. I no longer fit in and I am glad I don't. I don't know when people stopped being friendly. I take the red line everyday and not one person smiles.......seriously
2. I'm definitely not a typical Chicago guy. (thank god for that). My life does not revolve around how important I think I am. I would rather be open,silly and genuine. People have become Soooooooooo wrapped up in how serious they have to be and how they appear to other people its ridiculous. I would rather have ridiculous and confident then someone who follows the crowd.
3.If you think you can tell who or WHAT I am by the little pictures I have and a couple of words............something is wrong. I mean I'm 6'3, work at a gym and kind of look like Superman...... I can't be that gross?!? Ha Plus, I'm confident enough to be comfortable in ANY situation.
I've become this weird west coast/mid west hybrid and I love it. I really do miss the west coast but this is home. I work for health clubs and have a big fitness background ( former college volleyball player, coach and cyclist) but my heart is still in doing improv and stand up. I preformed off main stage at second city when I was younger and really loved it.
I'm as silly as they come but know when to calm down.
What I want from a match is simple...
I want someone that I can't take my eyes off and I adore her
She loves the fact that I want to make her laugh
Shes a bit of a nerd and she knows it
She's not afraid to be a big kid
She likes to stay active and healthy. I work out everyday and you should take care of yourself too
She likes GOOD BEER,but if your life still revolves around getting wasted like we did in college??????.....move on
She is looking for a relationship...
This All sounds waaaayyyyyyyy to serious. Really ... You just have to know what a real relationship is and be silly