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47 year old man
Coral Springs, Florida, United States

women 35-50
15 Miles of Pompano Beach, Florida, United States
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
6'0" (182cms)
Spiritual but not religious
No Way
Social Drinker



Someone please come fetch me, I don’t send emails anymore as women seem to get so many they can’t see when a real guy comes along… So if you see me as a real guy… please email me, and don’t worry if all you can think of to write is “Hi”… I admire the effort and if I'm interested, I'm just going to send a phone number so we can talk anyway. :) that way we can both save many wasted email hours.

The best things that life has brought me were almost always not what I imagined... so I don't have an exact type of woman I'm looking for ... you may have a dragon tattoo or not, Versace in your closet or not, 2 kids that need a father or not... my life experience is so deep that whatever you are, I'll be open to it and for me, a relationship will be driven by love and nothing else.

I'm relaxed, confident, easygoing, and talented at seeing the funny or positive in what's going on.. If you are looking for a party boy / mid life crisis guy, I am completely not that.... I'm extremely well traveled, educated and experienced, have both street and book 'smarts', and am very physically fit and mature.

I have a life that's focused on family, fitness, healthy living, the golden rule, kindness, and learning. My daughter is out on her own now (wow did that go fast), but I love family life / being a father and am up for kids again if you have them. if not that's OK too.

I recently took a dating questionnaire that is a little looooong, yet interesting if you wish to know more about me:

An awesome place I've visited:
I've been a LOT of places, but Maui takes the cake

Favorite movie scene?
I'm a film guy and love them all, but in a dating context? About 15-16 minutes into "Notting Hill", Julia Roberts impulsively leans over about a mile and kisses Hugh Grant... nice

my pet peeve about online dating is:
the texting and emailing thing... I prefer actually having a genuine conversation with a potential life mate... it's much warmer, and I'm way too busy with life to bounce a million messages back and forth when we could just figure out if there is chemistry in about 5 minutes on the phone: if not, we part friends... but if so, awesome

The movie I've watched the most times:
lately it's "the Tree of Life".. .I really like Terrence Malick... if you've seen it, I live 'the way of grace'..
It makes me feel good to:
do the right thing

My life history in 5 sentences or fewer:
Shy kid, wild teenager, wilder college guy, powerhouse corporate suit, domesticated family guy, self aware man

My first concert / My dream concert:
Rush.. dream concert? your favorite band unplugged in our living room....

Do soul mates exist?
soul mate infers a single perfect mate... which also infers never being happy with what we have..and that's not for me

I have a weakness for girls who:
have great posture... strange but true... when a woman shows confidence like that... it's magnetic

For me, a first date no-no is:
talking about other guys... obviously everyone had a life before, no big deal... but on the first date?

What I would bring to show and tell:
my dogs, they would blow the place up, lick everyone, and end the class... lol

A story you should remind me to tell you on our first date:
how my parents met... it could be a movie

Which is hotter? make up / glam or ponytail / baseball cap:
glammed up is nice, but ponytail and baseball cap hands down.... it says "I'm sporty and don't need a bunch of 'stuff' to feel good about myself."

I secretly want to be:
it's a secret... so it's only for me and my mate

I want to be with someone who wants to be:
generous with her love and time

An infatuation of mine:
learning all the time

If I won the lottery and quit my job, I would:
help people.... more

One thing my mother would want you to know about me:
that I can cook.... really

I want to come home to:
a home that is our shelter from the big bad worldld

Book club, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Football, Martial arts, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I've got two small dogs…. I'm not the crazy dog man or anything like that... but I dig 'em

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Florida Atlantic University, Boca Raton, FL
For fun:

Fun for me is family, exercise, film, theater, travel and lots of other stuff… life is a journey

Favorite hot spots:

My favorites are just for me and my mate.....

Favorite things:

I like film and photography when they have layers beyond the ordinary, travel when it's not with the herd, and standing at the edge of something new.

Last read:

I read a lot….. the one I liked most recently was “The Mastery of Love” by Don Miguel Ruiz. For me, it captured the nature of love in a stunning way….

6'0" (182cms)
4'10" (147cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
No preference
Dark brown
No preference
No Way
No Way, Yes, but trying to quit
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Financial / Accounting / Real Estate
No preference

I'm a father and a strategic business consultant

I'll tell you later
No preference
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
White / Caucasian
No preference

Scottish, German

Spiritual but not religious
No preference

I'm religious in a spiritual way and it’s important to me.... I respect all viewpoints so whatever you believe is AOK with me.

No preference
Graduate degree
No preference


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