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40 year old woman
Buffalo, New York, United States

Seeking:
men 38-48
Within:
20 Miles of Buffalo, New York, United States
Relationship:
Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Regularly

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

After exploring what it's like to live in other parts of the country for the last several years, my children and I have decided there's no place like home. No more moving for us, but happy to travel!

I have two wonderful kids who are my number one priority. I believe being a parent is the most important job in the world, and the most rewarding. They're growing up fast, so I'm counting my blessings having them as much as I do; they'll be grown up and moved out soon enough. However, I would like to get out a bit more than I do, and being the fifth wheel with my friends is really getting old!

You probably should know that the filter that leads from my brain to my mouth falters on occasion, and I also tend to trip over my own feet, but am otherwise balanced for the most part. ;) I make the best of every situation and can find the humor in pretty much anything. My philosophy is 'honesty is the best policy,' and I would much rather hear harsh truths than pretty lies (or omissions). I live by the Golden Rule and would hope that you do, too.

Since I was happily married, I have a unique perspective on relationships- I know it's possible to find someone I can be compatible with on all the right levels. I'm still holding out for that man... The one who looks at me and appreciates what he sees right in front of him. Who thinks my quirks are endearing, and notices things about me that I haven't noticed, and even likes them. Someone who has a life of his own with goals, and is just looking for someone to share it with. A man who is strong in every sense of the word and is not afraid of honesty. Who has an open heart and is capable of love and empathy. Confident but not conceited. Someone I can be light with and have fun with, share friendly banter, but can still have deep, meaningful conversations, and 'get' my dry sense of humor. Being able to laugh with someone is so important! And when things go wrong, we'll hash it out fairly and our relationship will be stronger for it. No one is perfect- I certainly am not! But ideally, we will bring out the best in each other.

Something like that doesn't happen instantly, so it comes down to starting out without pressure and expectations, and just see what happens. I've been in the dating scene for a while now and have learned much more than I wanted to, but it's not without purpose. I'm taking things slowly and will continue to have an open heart. Trying not to become jaded by this meat market. And if you find someone else you'd rather be with or you realize I'm just not the one for you, it's ok to tell me. Trust me- I can handle it. I've been through worse!

I'd rather be alone than with the wrong person, but am hoping to meet "the one" who will keep me out of this dreaded dating scene for good. So for now, I'm fine with just going on dates and establishing a solid friendship with someone I have chemistry with. That's the best way to start, anyway, right?

Good luck to all of us!

PS- Generally not a fan of the "selfie" so it's tricky to find pics of me since I'm usually the one behind the camera!

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Dancing, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

I've never been a cat person until I decided to get one for the kids since they're pretty low maintenance pets. Got one more so she would have a buddy, and they're inseparable. They've grown on me...

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Libra
College:
Medaille College, Buffalo, NY
Favorite hot spots:

We usually travel to Southern California once a year around July... This year, we're going to AZ and CA. Next year, the plan is CA and Hawaii!

Favorite things:

My kids
Friends
Seafood
Sunshine
Warm weather
Palm trees
Coronas and lime
Love

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 6'7" (200cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Regularly
No preference
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Widow / Widower
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Italian and Polish, with a sprinkle of French and Scottish...

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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