i need someone who is going to respect me for me. take me as i am. i want someone who i can have conversation with and someone i can get along with. one who is not afraid to hold my hand in public, but will also like to cuddle in private. so if you are interested let me hear from you soon and we can go from there. I do have 3 kids as well they do live with me. They are my life right now but i am sure if i find the right guy to be with i can definatetly find alot of time for u and i as well....