For me, it's the little things that matter. I think the greatest thing you can give to someone else is time. Most people are wholly busy these days, including myself (son, work, school), so in a sense it means that much more. My son is the center of world but there is still plenty of room for someone else!
My closest friends would describe me as fantastic in every way but hey, that's what they're there for lol. I suppose I would describe myself as fun-loving, I thoroughly enjoy going out and having a few beverages with my friends. I prefer a hole in the wall bar but I certainly will go elsewhere, except maybe the Cell Block... I am very laid back, but still sharp when the situation calls for it. I am a bit of a hopeless romantic, when you know, you know; if it feels right, it's right, even if it's only for a brief time, it's time that you will spend happy. I am the type of person that gets joy out of making other people happy, whether it's a simple smile or picking up something random because it reminded me of that person or I knew they would appreciate the weird humor I saw it. I like to think I'm fairly intelligent. I am (finally!) a senior working on my B.S. in Bioarchaeology and I love every second of it, even the ulcers it seems to be helping me create. My family and my friends are the center of my world and I would do anything for any of them but I think that's a given for most people.
I'm looking for someone that will enjoy my company as much as I enjoy their, someone that can put up with my weird tendency, love of science fiction and hippie music, can keep up with me in a video game, and loves to eat (I fancy myself a chef). Someone who is kind and intelligent. Looks aren't everything but there needs to be attraction on multiple levels or it just won't work. I want someone that, like myself, recognizes that little things are important, we may not be able to see each other all the time, I get that, or even be able to have a full-on conversation at times but a simple text or call to say good morning, or hi, hope you're having a good day means a lot. I need someone that can join my friends and I at the bar and still be standing by the end of night lol, but also be trusting enough to let me go out with my friends alone as I would do that same. I suppose, all in all, I am looking for someone that I can just spend some quality time with, out or at home, that I can be myself around, and in general makes me smile :-)