I am a guy who tries hard to better himself. I read to learn more and make myself a more valuable worker. I take time out to plan. I work out. I keep my place clean. I look where I want to go and check to see if I'm going there. I'm enjoying life with my friends and family, because I know birth is terminal.
The ideal girl for me is one who is into exercise in some way. Just because you might be old enough to have kids, own a house or have a career does not mean you stop enjoying things that involve running, jumping, throwing, dodging or competing. I nag myself to do these things throughout the week, get it done, and value myself for it. To me, that's not the vanity category. I don't need to explain if you are getting me.
In my world, logic prevails. If you tell me something about you that makes you sound crazy, I'm interested in finding out why and how that stuff made you that way. I'm into learning about people, and finding good in them. That means that I will be taking my sweet old time in getting to know people I meet on this website (which makes my 3-month subscription that much more crappy.) You should be able to talk things over in a calm manner most of the time like I do.
I will pass judgment on you if you can't spell, though. I have standards.
When I find the one, expect me to plan stuff that ranges from romantic to white knuckled adventure, with laughing until you're in tears in between. Walking in a silent, snow laden forest, holding hands to keep warm. Learning to surf at a beach. Getting out on the lake in a kayak early in the morning with the smooth water to look out over, and the warm sun beating on your back, with the fish scurrying from your paddle as you make your way. Entertaining at our place with good friends or family, awesome food and fun times. I can't wait to find someone to share things like that with. Maybe you'd like to add to the list?