I am looking for someone who is stable, fun, with a sarcastic sense of humor. Seeing someone for who they are, not what they are, is extremely important to me. While looks are always the first thing people judge by, I am one of those that likes to get to know someone before I judge them. Love goes deeper than the exterior. I do want to settle down, however, I do NOT want to rush things. I like to just let it happen. Going with the flow is something I have to deal with everyday, considering I am both Mom and Dad to my 3 kids (ages 16, 14, 9). Being a parent, I don't have a lot of time to be out and about, so being able to have fun at home is important. Now that the serious stuff is out of the way, I enjoy doing anything where I can have fun but I'm not big on risking my life so the level of adventure leans towards the safe side, LOL. Right now, the extent of my entertainment consists of joking and playing around with my kids and dogs. I do like going out and hanging with friends but I am definitely not into the club scene. I would rather go to a small bar with a local band and play some pool or shoot some darts. While I am a people person, I don't really enjoy hugely crowded areas. Unless it's a football game.
Given the fact that I have kids, it is imperative that you like kids. They are my world so if you don't, I am not the one for you. Also, I can not have any more. If you are interested in having more of your own, again I am not the one. Sorry to sound so blunt but I do not have time for any misunderstanding.
I'm also not big on drama. I have rid myself of all the fake and drama seeking people that have been in my life. It's not worth it and it only drags a person down. I want to surround myself with genuine people who are truly interested in me and my life.
I don't really like the question of body type but I will try to be as honest as possible. I do have some extra pounds (but still know how to dress nice) but I am trying to lose it. Unfortunately I just had invasive back surgery performed so my ability to exercise is quite limited. That said, a real man looking for a real relationship will take that into consideration when choosing a woman to meet.
Thank you for looking at my profile, and I hope you are successful in your relationship endevours. ;-)