A little about me: I am at the point in my life that I am secure in who I am and am very independent but I am looking for that person I click with. That one soul who makes me feel as special as I make him feel. Someone who is my best friend, my love and my confidant. That person I could trust with my everything, has integrity and is not afraid of letting go and take the chance to discover the wonders of a fantastic relationship and explore the world together. I confess that I have a tendency to spoil the person that I am in a relationship with and appreciate the same. Added bonus: I am also a gourmet cook, love animals, and appreciate little shows of affection and love to travel.
That being said, my ideal match must be between the ages of 40 and 48, active, healthy and enjoy physical activity. I myself am very active every day and take pride in the fact that I take very good care of myself. I eat clean, don’t smoke, drink on occasion, do not worship the sun, do not do drugs. I am a vegetarian primarily although I do eat fish every once in awhile (love sushi) and I truly live my life with an open mind and heart. Health and fitness as well as the arts are a significant part of my life.
Another “must” is that you must like to explore the world and try new things. I love adventure, am afraid of nothing (at least so far) and enjoy a variety of indoor and outdoor activities: Circus arts (2 - 3 times a week), rock climbing, road biking, kayaking, paddle boarding, music (listening, playing, singing) and body sculpting are among my favorites. Doesn’t mean you have to like all of these things and perhaps there are activities I’ve never done that you could share as well. Finally, an entrepreneur or driving force within a man is always sexy. Continued personal growth shows a lot about someone.
Trying to find your best friend, lover and soul-mate seems to be the most difficult thing in the world and lately it seem my picker hasn't worked so well. I think online dating sites are a great way to meet people but the reality is that unless you connect at both a spiritual and physical level what does it really mean? So although this must sound vain, I must be attracted to you physically as I am sure you must be to me. Not sure what my “type” is except that I know it when I see it. So if I don’t respond to your emails it’s not that I don’t think you are a perfectly nice person. I'm not looking for the perfect guy...I'm looking for the perfect guy for me. I work hard and play hard. If you are like that as well then we might just get along just fine.
"The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That’s what I hope to give you forever." – The Notebook