Looking for someone who is appealing emotionally, mentally, intellectually, physically.
There is not some magic checklist that someone must have - you know it when you find it.
I've got an outgoing and upbeat personality; some may misinterpret the outgoingness as flirting - it isn't. I'm the type who finds good in any situation, yet not pollyanna, and tries to keep it upbeat for everyone. So, when you find yourself in a crap situation, I'll suggest trying to sell it to the nursery as fertilizer! Someone told me she wanted to transplant my brain and personality to her husband! After hearing that, I made sure to avoid sharp knives when around the two of them!
I'm very easy-going yet am very goal-driven. If you don't have goals and are just skatin' in life, we probably won't be a good match.
Through the years, I've found that I'm drawn to the entrepeneur-type and/or one who works in sales. I like the creativity and the drive typically possessed by those "types". I dont know if that's my best fit or if it simply because that's where I've associated most of my life (you will never find cheerios if you're always looking in a box of corn flakes!).
You've gotta have a good sense of humor; make me laugh and I'm yours!
I've learned that it is better to be happy by yourself than it is to be unhappy with someone.
- sense of humor