This profile was written like a bouquet of roses. I'm adding some wildflowers to it. :)
5 top things
In no particular order...
Respectful, Honest, Trustworthy, Caring
If you're vain, fake, or wanna play games, go date a bimbo. I can smell your stank from miles away. No time for it.
It seems that there is a lack of good character in people these days. If you ain't got it, move on.
Pick up the phone and call. I'm not into having a long term text message relationship with you. I'm looking to get to know someone and vice versa beyond surface talk. If you think communication is equal to drama then good luck in any relationship. Communication may be good OR tough conversations that need to be had. That's a healthy relationship. It's not all pretty all the time. If you think it is, you're dreaming. Drama = crazy. I'm not into crazy, but everyday communication is a must.
If you cannot ask me on a date and plan something like a man, move it. Long term, I'm looking for FOREVER.
What I don't like about match is that I cannot see your personality. I've dated "hot" men but they ended up "ugly" inside. I've also dated men I was not initially attracted to, but their personality won me over. I'm not a stupid woman who just dates for looks. Who you are on the inside is more important.
That being said, we all tend to be attracted to a person who takes care of themselves, so physical chemistry is part of the equation, but so is mental and spiritual chemistry. I am a "physical touch" person. If you cannot hold my hand or kiss me, I'm not diggin' it. I'm not talkin' about "getting a room" in public.
Last, but not least... My relationship with Jesus is important to me. Listen, I'm NOWHERE near perfect. I'm perfectly imperfect and I hope you are too. Being a believer in Christ to me means I accept Him as my Savior and He loves me for who I am and for who I am not. I'm looking for someone who loves Him too, wants to know Him, and wants to grow spiritually with me.
This is an ongoing process. We screw up, He forgives. Thank goodness.
God knows my heart and who I am. There's no hiding that. I love how He loves me anyway.
Ok, I've dated my share of men, had some long term relationships, and was even engaged. I have waited to marry for a reason. I am looking for the right man, forever. I know who I am and strive to be the "right" woman with the above characteristics. I know what I want and continue to grow as a person. The top 5 traits are essential to me. I'd rather be alone than divorce or settle. If this bothers you, then date some chick who does not care about this kinda stuff. I do.
- I love good 'ole Country music, cold beer, family, friends, and God.
-Sports. I love 'em. I grew up playing sports and watching. My Dad played for the Cubs minor league, and then coached college basketball and baseball so my sister and I grew up around sports. I watch ESPN frequently, love Rockies, Cubs, Broncos, and college anything.
-Music. I've been singin' since I was young. I've sang the National Anthem at a MLB game, been in a reality Country music vocal competition, sang at several conventions, events, Disney, games, church, bars... anything from Country to Christian and Opera to Jazz. If I could do anything in the world, I'd sing for a living.
I'm really into Eric Church right now. His music is real.
-I am my Grandfather's granddaughter which means I can get fired up, share few cuss words and tell you what I think. I know when to, and when not to. I have beliefs and I'll let you know what they are, but are open to what you think. I'm an angel with a little set of horns. I can be sassy and sweet. Either way I'm respectful to others. Again, I'm not perfect. REAL
-I don't care what age you are as long as you fit the "5".
I know what I'm lookin' for. Like I said, my profile used to read like a bouquet of roses.