i like cheesy and dorky things. I have a 7yr old son that i adore. Im looking for that guy who isnt scared to be himself, that will let me be myself. Someone who will communicate as thats one of the biggest things to a relationship. Dont get scared if i push away...and will be understanding as my previous relationship had lots of trust issues. get to know me for the crazy, silly, fun loving redhead that i am. i work with mentaly ill and developmentally disabled. I Love my job very much and im very good at it. Im not like most women i really dont like doing the shoping and geting my nails done or even doing my make-up much im a what you see is what you get kind of women. i can and will be a witch with a B but really what women isnt lol. i love my son and no one will come between that!! I have my own stuff and what i dont have i dont need, so im not out to see what i can get. i have my own place and do not bel ieve in living out of my means. i have lived through some very hard times in my live. so i really know how to look on the good side of everything cause it always gets better :-) I want a man that will man up when needed and is not scared to hold my hand or hug me or kiss in public .