I can be steady and serious, goofy and ridiculous, playful, or completely sarcastic, depending on the context, company, or prevailing mood...on a good day, maybe all four! I love music around my experiences most of the time, and I love how clearly it sends me back to some random emotion or event. I loved the Radiohead concert at the Greek in Berkeley..I think at the time I was sure I cracked the riddle to the meaning of life.but I can't recall it. I keep searching. I love women-I love how close with eachother you are, and how effortlessly you can put your hair in a ponytail in pretty much any situation...unless it goes the other way and you go horribly Mean Girls on eachother...vicious. My favorite qualities in myself and others are genuineness, integrity, humility, humor. I know that good relationships are always works in progress, but I love the feeling when you just get eachother. all guards are down, total comfort, easiness, safety, love and respect. That is pretty much what I'm searching for. and settling is not an option