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28 year old woman
Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States

Seeking:
men 27-36
Within:
50 Miles of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

If I have a motto, it's probably that there is always something to do or learn or enjoy; so if you're bored, you're doing something wrong.

I have a love of outdoor beauty that is apparently growing over time, so my desire to camp and stargaze and attend music festivals likewise grows.

I spend my workdays - and a lot of time outside of work - working on computer and web programming shtuff, and really enjoy it, but it's really important to me to unplug sometimes. That's where the camping, etc comes in.

I'm also addicted to snowy mountains and sailing down them with my feet attached to a wooden board (did you know this was originally called 'snurfing?') so it wouldn't hurt if you were also someone with an appreciation for the colder seasons :)

For entertainment, I like to read fiction and go to concerts where people play music I will later find myself singing. I watched soccer when I studied abroad, and I like watching Olympic snurfing, but in general spectator sports don't excite me (to put it mildly).

It's harder than I imagined to describe what I think a relationship partner should be...("I'll know it when I have it" apparently doesn't fly on match?) First and foremost is that a good partnership doesn't depend on traditionally defined gender roles, but deep personal compatibility and desire to grow and learn from each other. Sarcasm has its place - I use it a lot - but too much of it, especially at the expense of curiosity and vulnerability and gentleness, makes me frustrated and exhausted. Like everyone, I have my superficial "must have" list with regards to facial hair, intelligence level, financial wherewithal and general sexiness, but if our souls connect and it seems like we've known each other forever, then most of those things quickly cease to matter. The best friendships & relationships in my experience don't arise from the list of things match.com says we have in common anyway (birth month? Who seriously gives a shit?)

So... I guess that's enough to start out with.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Running, Skiing, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

I have a cat who plays fetch.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Playing music with friends (folk, bluegrass); snowboarding, reading; playing foosball or pingpong; rock climbing

Favorite hot spots:

Berlin, New Mexico, my kitchen, Indy Hall, the Wissahickon trail.

Favorite things:

Canadian pizza.
Any music that has good melody, preferably good harmony... for example: Punch Brothers, Nickel Creek (might have a theme going here), the Milk Carton Kids.
Silence. Foreign movies. Comedies if they are good. The Colbert Report.

Last read:

The Queen Must Die by William Longgood. Bees are fascinating.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 6'11" (210cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

Assassin.

Income:
I'll tell you later
$25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Black / African descent, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, White / Caucasian
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Agnostic, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English, German
Dutch, English, German, Italian, Norwegian, Spanish, Swedish
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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