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49 year old man
North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, United States

Seeking:
women 41-53
Within:
90 Miles of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (3)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Agnostic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Every opportunity has a shelf life, and for me, it's the end of Sept. of this year, when my acct. expires.

I've been on this site a LONG time. I tried doing it in a unique and interesting way. There used to be a ton of humor in my narrative, because anyone can SAY "I'm funny," but very few can actually back it up... That approach got me literally hundreds of messages that started out "I know we're not a match, but I have to say that was the best profile I've ever seen on a dating site." Gratifying, but it didn't get me any closer to finding the next great love of my life.

I was also hyper-selective, because I thought I wanted a long-term committed relationship... I didn't ask someone out unless I thought it was at least plausible that she could be "the one." I ignored messages from women who offered casual sex (believe me - there were plenty!), and I politely declined dates with women that had a deal-breaker personality trait or lifestyle issue, even if they were attractive...

Where did it get me? A million first dates, a handful of second dates, 2 or 3 third dates, and one woman made it to date number 6 before it imploded. And I kept DOING it... They say the definition of insanity is to keep doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different result.

NO MORE...

It's time to re-evaluate what I want, and can offer in return. Because CLEARLY, what I have been doing isn't working.

So, here's the new deal...

I'm now wanting a no-commitment dating arrangement. I no longer think it's feasible to find a serious, long-term relationship. Why? A few reasons...

First, I have some practical dating limitations. Among those are my 3 young daughters who live nearby with the ex... I get them every other weekend, which leaves me 26 kid-free weekends a year, along with weekday nights. Most of you also have limitations on your time (work, kids, pets, etc). Our combined obstacles make it hard to spend the time required to properly feed and nurture a serious relationship.

Another reason is that although my divorce was final in the summer of 2012, and I've made tons of progress since then - I still have some lingering resentment about how I was treated during the process. It seems to be currently popular to call that "baggage," which, God forbid, might lead to "drama." (eyeroll). Here's a little piece of helpful advice. If you require the total absence of drama and baggage, at our age, you probably need to find someone that has spent the last 20 years in a cryogenically frozen state. Just sayin'...

So there it is! Unlike 98% of the guys on here, who will LIE and say ANYTHING to get you horizontal, I'm giving you raw, unvarnished truth... If a casual, no-commitment relationship ISN'T what you're looking for, I'll thank you for your time, wish you luck, and cordially invite you to click "next."

So - now I can be less picky, but there are still some absolute deal-breakers. They are: Smoking, illegal drug use of any kind, facial or 'private-part' piercings, and someone who is not fit and healthy. Yes, I STILL have to be physically attracted to you, and would want you to feel the same about me. By the way - this also means that if you don't have multiple, recent profile pics, you just wasted 5 minutes of your life reading this, because I promise we won't be communicating...

Oooh! Is this what all the cool kids mean when they say "keepin' it real?" I'm getting all tingly inside... Maybe I'll take a shirtless baf'room selfie and throw up a gang sign with one hand, while holding a dead fish in the other.

Yeahhhh... on second thought, not so much!

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Playing sports, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Golf, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

Dogs have owners, cat's have staff. I am staff to 1 cat, a girl... Know what I've always wondered, though? What should you do if you see an endangered animal eating an endangered plant?

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Libra
College:
West Virginia University, Morgantown, WV
For fun:

Brought to you by the "Department of Redundancy Department?"... Kayaking, shag dancing, working out, dining on the shattered dreams of homeless people...yummy! (not really - just seeing if you were paying attention). I almost never watch sports.

Favorite hot spots:

Blowing Rock, NC.. Charleston, SC... I want to try the Greek Islands some day... Anywhere high up... I'm not afraid of heights... I am, however, terrified of WIDTHS.

Favorite things:

Making the best buttermilk pancakes on the planet. No, seriously, they're THAT good...
Public speaking is a favorite too. And I don't even need to imagine my audience in their underwear... Sometimes I do anyway, just cuz it's funny

Last read:

I love Pat Conroy's novels and pancake recipes... I REFUSE to read instruction manuals... Hey - it's a guy thing... what can I do? Totally out of my hands... *shrugs shoulders* And I think that Cliff Snotes guy writes some compelling short fiction!

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Executive / Management
No preference

I oversee a dept. of 17 professionals who all think I practice seagull management, where I fly in, make a lot of noise, crap all over everything, then fly away again. So I replaced their Starbucks with Wal Mart brand coffee. Hmmmph!!!

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (3)
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, White / Caucasian

British mother, American father. This makes me a bit of an Anglophile. Also, I have 11 brothers: Steve, Rick, Dan, Doug, Phil, Eugene, Craig, Jody, Johnny, Brian, and Ho Cha Chu... One of them is Chinese. I'm pretty sure it's Phil...

Faith:
Agnostic
Agnostic, Atheist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious

Only sheep need shepherds. I am not a sheep... That said, I live my life with ethics, values and integrity because I've always believed it would be cool if there was a *little* less douchebaggery in the world!

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

I completed all the coursework for a Ph.D., but 'life' interrupted the writing of my dissertation. I suppose that means I can claim "Ph.D., ABD." I do have a bachelor's and master's degree. I have been an adjunct professor at a major university.

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