Adventure doesn't have to mean rock climbing in Thailand or jetting to the other side of the world. It can be that and sometimes it is, but "adventure" is usually closer to home for me, and often just as adrenaline evoking. It's more about taking the sometimes challenging steps needed to succeed in the things I genuinely want and care about most. This is where life always gets more exciting and where connections with the people closest to me always benefit and deepen,
I'm very focused about certain things, but always try to appreciate what's happening in front of me, right now, whatever that is. Appreciating both where I am and where I want to be helps keep things balanced and real; tightening the gap between these inspires me.
I love being active: skiing, soccer, yoga, rock climbing, ocean swims in the evening after work. I especially like doing these kinds of things with someone else, but you don’t have to be terribly athletic or coordinated; a willingness to try is very sexy – If nothing else, leg wrestling is always an option. And these activities tend to make cold beer and foot massages all the more enjoyable, and maybe the best part!
A good friend once said this about me: “you navigate seamlessly between fun and serious, romantic and raunchy”. You can get a grasp of what I’m like from my friend’s prospective. I think the “raunchy” part is mostly about my sense of humor. Lol.
I know what I like and am very honest. Physical attraction is very important to me, but a woman who is also warm, open, gutsy, smart, sensual and loves to laugh will definitely get my attention. Most important, and beyond any list of attributes, is great connection and chemistry. Having the kinds of conversations where time stops is usually a pretty good indicator for this. So is having a relationship that’s open, supportive and real; where I get to appreciate the particular mix of strengths and flaws that is you and you get to feel that appreciation. And where we have each others' back completely; meaning I’m as committed to your going for and having what you want in life as I am for myself.
If you happen to see yourself here, send me an email, I'd love to hear from you.