I've been on match for 3 years and am taking my time. I've had some dates and haven't found that special one yet and not really sure if I was ready for that anyway until now. It takes a while to really accept that life is moving on and the old life is gone. Just remember, that everyday that goes by, is another day out of your 100 years that you can't be back, and that you didn't spend with that special someone.I always knew that, but wasn't ready for a relationship at that point in time. So if you are interested, drop me a line and we can talk, not text, but talk. We can text later when need milk from the store on my way home from work. Lol there are so many people out there who want relationships, but they only want to text, and that won't work with me. Texting for serious conversations only wind up getting misconstrued many times and texting doesn't convey inflection. So let's talk.