Am I actually doing this?lol! ( After getting experience w how this works -PLEASE understand I am looking for my match just like you.. so if u are not someone who has a lifestyle that mirrors mine please do not respond. I really appreciate the time many have given me but I want someone who I can SHARE my life and interest with..) LETS MAKE THIS MORE CLEAR-IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A PIC THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO SEND DURING YOUR FIRST CONTACT WITH ME - I AM NOT INTERESTED-I AM NOT GOING TO ASK FOR ONE-ITS CREEPY AND UNFAIR. I HAVE FILTERS SO IF I AM NOT RESPONDING IT IS BC YOU ARE BEING FILTERED AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST-IF YOU WOULD NOT ASK ME OUT IN PERSON, APPROACH ME IN PERSON, HAVE PICS FROM YEARS AGO-ANY OF IT- PLEASE STOP.CONTACTING ME. ITS NOT FLATTERING IT IS FRUSTRATING AND UNFAIR. I JUST WANT A CHANCE TO MEET THE RIGHT PERSON TOO. I hate that I had to say that... I am a crazy busy woman who has decided to go back to school since my divorce. I have a beautiful, awesome, absolutely perfect, 7 year old! She really is the best thing I have ever had the pleasure of being a part of. I am independent, strong, busy, and stubborn(attractive,right?). That being said, I am also super positive, extremely feminine, old fashioned, and a die hard romantic. I love that fairy tales end with happily ever after. I love being treated like a woman. I am looking for someone who has character and charm. I want to be with the kind of man who just does what a man should do without being asked, nagged, or begged.Because I don't/won't really do any of those things.Its too time consuming and dramatic. I would just prefer we be honest about our selves and the roles we want initially- as opposed to waiting for "the crazy to come out'-as I affectionately have dubbed it ( heehee). I have been doing this single thing for a long time- as I am sure many of you on this site have. I knew that I needed to take the time to work on me- I didn't feel like the woman I had to offer over the past few years was anywhere near my potential and when I found the right person -I wanted to be open to it- even welcome it! I feel like I took the time and did the work on me personally and really deciphered who I am and what it is I need- something I had never done. I am looking to meet someone who has done the same. I dont have a long list- but am really hoping for someone I can fall into, count on and know its okay. It would be nice to not be a tough cookie all the time! I love love love a great sense of humor (but not distasteful and I hate stupid humor movies). I am looking for christian man who loves life and really wants to be his best self.I cant stress that enough. Church is very important to me and I would love to be able to share that. I believe that being healthy and active are extremely important and should be a REGULAR part of everyones lifestyle. Its important to me that the people I surround myself with find value in a healthy lifestyle. No diets here! No No No- If you are active and lead the kind of lifestyle that fits with mine- theres no need( ok, maybe right before we head to the beach). I am looking for a partner and best friend- someone that is smart, independent, loves life, and is constantly finding new ways to challenge themselves. I would like to find someone to laugh with, learn with, and explore amazing things with.
Lol! Thats so cheezey! ..But its all true;)