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35 year old woman
Berkeley, California, United States

Seeking:
men 33-46
Within:
10 Miles of Berkeley, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Curvy
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
I'll tell you later
Smoke:
I'll tell you later
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I work as a doula (which means I help bring babies into the world)
I also do massage
and I work for a local certified organic ice cream company being an office angel and outside sales rep
I play with art and writing
Loving it all

These days I've been thinking of how to enjoy life even more as a Berkeley urban hillbilly mama who grew up in farm country, traveled 8 countries, is educated in 4 trades, likes numerology and doesn't mind a man with restless leg syndrome as long as she can hitch up her gypsie caravan for the fortnightly sojurns.

I'm thinking about that and holding hands and making more roots.

To elaborate: I really like to have fun. And casual dating andor casual sex can be great fun. But it gets lonely and I feel unfulfilled after a while when "Mr. Right Now" goes back to his girlfriend, wife, or his nights on the prowl. I am a single mother and I don't want to become sexually repressed and at times I have been daunted by the mere idea of trying to find someone I could integrate into my life. It can be challenging so I have created this sort of split life: mom life and dating life. I'd prefer to not have to do this eventually.

That said, I am not the type of person who can call herself 'monogomous' 'polyamorous' 'radical lover' etc. I cannot give myself a title but I can be open to it all in the name of love. All I know is that when I find the right relationship I trust the pieces will fall into place and I will forget there was a 'putting together' of the puzzle at all. We can then sit back and observe the beauty of the image which is complete. That's not to say that it might be fun to pull some parts of the puzzle out from time to time and add glue, or paint, or poetry in the blank places... this is why I say I can't label. Once there's a safety net, life is less lonely and the trust will design an amazing diverse combined life. THAT is what I am eager to explore and I 'get it' that I have to be open to dating in many forms and check what's out there to eventually find what fits...and so it goes :)

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Dancing, Inline skating, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Cats, Dogs
Pet Essay:

1 cat 1 dog

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
University of Alaska Anchorage, Anchorage, AK
For fun:

I really like to hike and dance to live music. Arts events, documentaries, and travel are some of my favorite things.

Favorite hot spots:

I've only lived here a year and a half. The bay area just keeps getting better.

Favorite things:

Here is a random selection of my favs in no specific order. Spin the wheel and a whole array of other favorites will pop up:
The Little Prince
I Love You Man
Bakesale Betty
Anais Nin
Curb Your Enthusiasm
Portlandia
The Devil Makes Thre

Last read:

A book of Spanish poetry. Didn't read it but tried. I am working on learning Spanish. I know some already but then I want to move on to Brazilian Portuguese.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
5'7" (170cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
Curvy
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds, Stocky
Eyes:
Hazel
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Light brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde, Platinum, Bald
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
I'll tell you later
No Way, Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness
No preference

I am a Birth Doula and Massage Therapist

Income:
Less Than $25,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
Not sure
Not sure, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Some college
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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