I work as a doula (which means I help bring babies into the world)
I also do massage
and I work for a local certified organic ice cream company being an office angel and outside sales rep
I play with art and writing
Loving it all
These days I've been thinking of how to enjoy life even more as a Berkeley urban hillbilly mama who grew up in farm country, traveled 8 countries, is educated in 4 trades, likes numerology and doesn't mind a man with restless leg syndrome as long as she can hitch up her gypsie caravan for the fortnightly sojurns.
I'm thinking about that and holding hands and making more roots.
To elaborate: I really like to have fun. And casual dating andor casual sex can be great fun. But it gets lonely and I feel unfulfilled after a while when "Mr. Right Now" goes back to his girlfriend, wife, or his nights on the prowl. I am a single mother and I don't want to become sexually repressed and at times I have been daunted by the mere idea of trying to find someone I could integrate into my life. It can be challenging so I have created this sort of split life: mom life and dating life. I'd prefer to not have to do this eventually.
That said, I am not the type of person who can call herself 'monogomous' 'polyamorous' 'radical lover' etc. I cannot give myself a title but I can be open to it all in the name of love. All I know is that when I find the right relationship I trust the pieces will fall into place and I will forget there was a 'putting together' of the puzzle at all. We can then sit back and observe the beauty of the image which is complete. That's not to say that it might be fun to pull some parts of the puzzle out from time to time and add glue, or paint, or poetry in the blank places... this is why I say I can't label. Once there's a safety net, life is less lonely and the trust will design an amazing diverse combined life. THAT is what I am eager to explore and I 'get it' that I have to be open to dating in many forms and check what's out there to eventually find what fits...and so it goes :)