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28 year old man
Santa Barbara, California, United States

Seeking:
women 22-35
Within:
Miles of Santa Barbara, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Let me tell you a little something about yourself!

First, you're intelligent. I love good conversations, those in which I walk away feeling like I've learned something about myself, the other person, or the world. If you're witty (or even just goofy) that's a definite plus.

Second, you've had a life that included at least a few enriching experiences. You don't need to have traveled the world (yet) but it would be nice if you've done something other than watched TV and gone to school.

Third, you're someone who naturally elevates the people you're with. In my life, I have come across a few people who encourage and inspire those that they interact with. They're a joy to be with, and I'm hoping you're one of them.

Who do I think I am, to be writing such a tall order?

Well, I love to challenge myself and be challenged by the people around me -- not because I'm competitive, but because I have a passion for learning. I guess I'm kind of a dork! I'm also very accepting, and I want you to feel safe enough to be bold when you're with me.

I keep fit in the gym or at the beach, I ride motorcycles, and I love to go on adventures. I feel really lucky to be alive in this time and place, and am looking for the right person to share it with.

If you think you might be a match, drop me a line, or wink if that's easier. Worst case, we'll probably be friends!

Talk to you soon,
Ben

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Football, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats, Dogs, Horses
Pet Essay:

I have a dog and a cat. They're both rescues, and are best friends :) My family has horses in New Zealand and Santa Barbara.

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Capricorn
College:
University of California, Santa Barbara, Santa Barbara, CA
For fun:

I really enjoy living in California, because I'm a motorcycle enthusiast (not a biker!) and the weather here is about as good as it gets. I also really like going to the beach, reading, and having stimulating conversations with smart people.

Favorite hot spots:

I love going home to NZ- my family still lives there and I always have a blast when I go to visit them. I've been all over the Pacific and the Caribbean, and went to Europe when I was younger. I'd love to explore Asia and Africa.

Favorite things:

I'm a big fan of classic rock- Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young; Steppenwolf; Creedence Clearwater Revival; The Doors are among my favorites. I have limited appreciation for pop music and rap, but can suspend judgment if it's what you're into.

Last read:

Freedom, by Jonathan Franzen. Blown away. Abandoned Infinite Jest after around 500 pages, when I realized it was written in fractals and didn't seem to be going anywhere. Love John Irving, David Sedaris and I think that Hemingway was a total mensch.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark blonde
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally
Drink:
Never
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Student
No preference

My goal is to become educated to work in all aspects of a substance-abuse treatment facility, and to then open my own. Education is my primary occupation.

Income:
$35,001 to $50,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

I was born in Texas, moved to New Zealand when I was 9, and have spent most of my life moving. I've put down roots in Southern California, and am glad to have a place to call home. I do miss my family, though!

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

I'm a spiritual seeker, and I hope I'm on a spiritual path. I'm accepting of all faiths and all religions, and believe that they all contain a unifying wisdom.

Languages:
English, Other
English
Education:
Some college
High school, Some college

I'm working towards graduate school, where I will at obtain at least a master's degree.

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