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Not your perfect guy (does he really exist??) but maybe I might have more checks in the "Yes" column than in the "no", up to you to decide.

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61 year old man
San Jose, California, United States

Seeking:
women 50-60
Within:
50 Miles of San Jose, California, United States
Relationship:
Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (3)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
Asian
Body type:
About average
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

About me, hmmmmm...Loving, caring, a good listener, intelligent conversationalist, great sense of humor ( I even laugh at myself when I do stupid things), family man, Christian, patient, easy going and not hard to get along with at all. I can get quiet at times, lost in thought somewhere, but for the most part I am attentive. No, I'm not perfect, nor am I any God's gift to anyone, I am just me. I'm happy with my life, I'm still learning and growing and what's missing is someone to share experiences with. Some of the passions I enjoy are cooking, (and I'm not just a grill and fry cook, but I can really throw down in the kitchen when the mood hits) photography (not just a point and shoot guy) and fishing. I love the outdoors and will pack some light camp gear, get the dog and head for the hills. There is nothing like sitting by a campfire on a clear, dark night, gazing at the stars and talking with God.
I believe starting any relationship begins with respect. Hopefully through mutual respect a friendship of trust can develop and whatever grows from that, we have yet to discover. I'd like to go as far as we can take each other and that might be only a first date or it could be till death do us part. There is an old saying "opposites attract" but I'm from the school of thought that says "birds of a feather, flock together." meaning that there needs to be some compatibility for us to succeed. I won't try and force a relationship I know won't work. If I'm not meeting your needs, spiritual, emotional, physical, financial or whatever, or you mine, why push it? I think if we start out as friends, and love doesn't blossom, we can still be friends. I know relationships can get complex but I try to keep it simple as possible. What I'd like to find out about you is what makes you laugh, what makes you smile, what are your likes, your dislikes. What are your favorite flowers, your favorite colors......I don't know, I enjoy the discovery. It's more fun to observe and ask than giving you a checklist to fill out.
I have plenty to say and could write endlessly about who I am and what I'm about. But really, if you're interested then that's up to you to discover. I'm only trying to pique an ounce of your interest and if you need to have some questions answered.....then ask on and I'll give them as honestly as I can. But then I'll expect the same from you also. I'll tell you now, I'm not in here looking for a one sided relationship. Like that old Teddy Pendergrass song....it's got to be 50/50....but that doesn't mean that if you're down I won't carry you, I'll have your back, and that's what friends do for each other anyway.
So let me close this by saying, if you haven't hit the back arrow yet and are still reading this, thanks for taking a peek at my humble profile. If you have an itch and you think I can scratch it, give me a holler. We can get together for some coffee, tea, a jamba and see where we'll go from there. If not, I wish you the best in finding that one you are searching for...peace!

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Bowling, Walking / Hiking
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Active church member, attending a few Oakland Raiders games, party boat fishing on the ocean, camping, a good play, dinner out, concerts (jazz, latin jazz, salsa, old school R&B..)

Favorite hot spots:

Fav place, Firenze, Italia, Boracay, Philippines,
Negril, Jamaica, Amsterdam, Out in the ocean on some fishing boat, or in a forest camping out.

Favorite things:

fav music: R&B Classics, Luther, Sade, Gospel, Aretha, EWF, Stevie....u know my vibe
Not much TV watcher, but I was watching Project Runway and DWTS....

Last read:

The Celebration of Discipline (Christian Reading) by Richard Foster

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'4" (162cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Salt and pepper
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Never
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Widow / Widower
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (3)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian
No preference
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

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