People say It's not about appearances. It's about effectiveness- I kinda like both.
What I'm looking for is not to hook up. A man that knows when to be serious and at the same time can make me laugh until it hurts. I'm easy going and fun to be around with. My sarcasm comes in waves. I have some level of silliness.
First impression always lasts. What you see is what you get. Shirtless photos do not attract me. I still get carded in bars and I am not complaining about that.
I can be moody at times but once you get to know me, that side of me is pretty easy to handle.