Well, lets see...I am a social worker (insert joke here, I have no problem making fun of myself). I love sports especially baseball and hockey love hiking with my dog, love motorcycles and I would say I am a country girl at heart but I also like taking care of myself, getting dressed up and looking nice, so I can be a "girly girl" at the same time. My faith is an important part of my life.
I, and my family, have a dry sarcastic sense of humor and my friends would describe me as funny most likely. I'm looking for someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously (like for instance, someone who doesn't post pictures of themselves shirtless in the mirror...), who is compassionate, who is not clingy, who is funny, who has a job but isnt married to it at the expense of seeing them, whose neat (not like the old school word for "cool", like keeps their place somewhat presentable), who loves animals (I have several, drive me crazy but I love em), who is a Yankees fan (just kidding... kinda), someone I can just be myself around I guess oh and someone who is a mans man I guess- a guy who is respectful and honorable and doesn't even know the meaning of "metro-sexual" and brownie points for motorcycles.
For my part, I pride myself on being independent and not NEEDING a man, so Im not looking for someone who NEEDS a girl- be comfortable with who you are before looking for a relationship or at least a relationship with me. One of the things Im good at is knowing how to treat a man; Im happy to sit and watch sports, bring you a beer or give a shoulder rub. I dont ask for anything Im not willing to give myself so I will never be the girl cheating, lying, playing games, all that jazz.
I would say just as important as knowing what your looking for is knowing what your not looking for- I am so sick of meeting guys who say one thing and do another- if your not able or willing to make a relationship a priority, Im not your girl- I am not looking for a you-know-what buddy, or to "date" someone I see every couple weeks- thats not a relationship so if thats what your looking for please leave me out of it. I enjoy going out and having a good time as much as the next person but if your still looking to get hammered every weekend Im not for you; I have a job, own a home and have goals for myself, and need to be with someone who has drive and ambition. Overall, I just wish I could find a guy who is honest- honest about what they want- I know girls def play games, but Ive been finding guys do too and I just dont have the time or patience for it. Oh and a few more fun facts:
I have an irrational fear of losing fingers; myself losing fingers or others. One of my favorite things to do is go to a hockey game but whenever someone hits the ice all I can think of is fingers! fingers!
There are a handful of words I can NOT spell, hard as I try, and I sometimes have to go our of my way to not have to type them,
There are like 20 movies I could recite in totality (including My Cousin Vinny, Christmas Vacation, What About Bob, Groundhog Day, Kindergarten Cop, The Birdcage, it goes on...) but ask me to remember what I had for dinner last night and I got nothing.
I love napping, like love it bad, dont get to do it a lot but its my favorite.
I really wish I could do that whistle where you put two fingers in your mouth and get everyone's attention and have been trying to do it for year, no luck.
I dont eat meats that I think are cute animals- duck, veal (obv!), deer or lamb
I am terrified and at the same time obsessed with sharks