I like to think of myself as confident but not overly. I'm a very humble, hardworking and dedicated.
I'm always there for my friends and loved ones. I am honest and trustworthy. I would expect my match to have the same qualities.
I feel there has to be a mutual attraction for there to be good chemistry between two people. So being fit and having good looks are important, as well as being smart, kind and funny. Also, I use current pictures within a year or so. If you're using pictures that are 5 - 10 years old and you know you look different now, please don't bother. We all have busy schedules and starting with a misleading profile will not work.
Also, I'm interested in getting to know someone slowly. Unfortunately, my experience with this site has been with people who are very eager to fast forward into the physical part of things. I really admire someone that wants to get to know me first and foremost and enjoy each others company outside of our homes for several dates. I'm at a point in my life where I'm seeking a life partner to ideally have a family with, so casual dating isn't my goal.