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41 year old woman
Bear, Delaware, United States

Seeking:
men 38-48
Within:
20 Miles of Bear, Delaware, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
I'll tell you later
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I am…
Intelligent and independent. 50% girly-girl, 50% tomboy, and definitely NOT afraid of getting dirty or breaking a sweat. Strong spirited… but soft hearted. A fan of (and prone to) silliness and playful sarcasm. Able to laugh at myself and the more ridiculous things in life. A firm believer that life is too short to waste time and energy with negativity - I don’t hold grudges (or carry relationship "baggage") and I hate to go to bed mad. I have a solid sense of priorities, and the people I love, especially my son, will always be first in my life. I am sadly aware that life is not always easy or fair, but still see the beauty in it. I find peace in natural spaces, and joy in simple pleasures. (the feel of the sun on my skin, the colors of the sky, the smell of fall leaves, the rhythm of a song...)

What I am looking for…
The kind of relationship I am ultimately looking for is one where, after years together, we will still flirt shamelessly with each other as if we just met. Where a simple hug, or touch, is all that is needed to make everything feel right with the world. Where the eyes speak as much as the lips, and a wink or a smile from across a crowded room can make the entire room, in that moment, disappear. (a kiss should definitely have the same effect!) Chemistry is important, but not enough on its own. Compromise, communication and honesty are key. I am certainly not perfect, and don’t expect anyone else to be either. What I am, though, is absolutely genuine. I don’t play games (really don’t see the point) and I will not be played with either. (so if you are looking for a booty call, I'm not your girl) What I hope to eventually find is an easy and enduring affection, a best friend and partner for life's adventures. I do long to say, hear, and FEEL those three little words again, but it is definitely worth the wait! So, for now, I am simply... open.

Oh, AND, just to clarify... :)
I am NOT looking for...
A husband, a hero, a father for my son, or a "sugar daddy". (phew!) Though I remain open to whatever tomorrow may bring (including marriage) and won't hold back if something feels right, I don't "need" anything, and feel no pressure regarding my relationship future. What is meant to be, will be. I truly believe that. I am financially comfortable/responsible and rich in all of the ways that truly matter so, if you have money I'm happy for you, but that is not what interests me. Who you are, and who we ultimately are together, is what will move me.

And if you are still with me after all of THAT, I have one final disclosure....

I am actually the mother of two beautiful children, but had to endure the loss of one of them. My eldest son died, suddenly and unexpectedly, in April of 2011. It was inexplicable... and completely life-changing. I mention this now simply because the most difficult thing for me about dating again has been worrying about when, and how, to bring this up. (It's not an easy date conversation, but it is a huge part of who I am) If you get to know me, and are interested, I'll share our story and how it has affected my outlook on life. For now, you know... which is enough.

So...
If I haven't completely lost you with my profile-turned-blog post, and you feel that I may be worth knowing, send me a wink or a hello and we'll see where it goes.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
I'll tell you later
Exercise habits:
I'll tell you later
Pets:
I have Dogs
Political views:
I'll tell you later
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Anything active / outdoors, movies, day trips, nights out, nights in,
family friendly activities with my little man, driving "topless"

Favorite hot spots:

I love to travel, and haven't done nearly enough of it. My bucket list could fill a front-end loader! Foreign travel, to me, is about experiencing the culture. Get me away from the tourists, I want to be immersed! Local attractions are good too!

Favorite things:

My son (who keeps me grounded and is my greatest joy), my family and friends, all genres of music (my ipod collection is quite eclectic), the beach, the mountains, good food, new experiences / adventures.... so, so many things!

Last read:

Anything by Dean Koontz, Dennis Leary "Why We Suck", Nora Roberts "Black Hills".....

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
5'5" (165cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Green
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
No answer
Want kids:
I'll tell you later
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
I'll tell you later
No preference

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