So moved to Oahu about 2 months ago and am looking to meet new people. I am going to college using the montgomery GI Bill as I got out of the military about a year ago. I mean really, they tell me I can go to college anywhere in the world and they will pay me a check monthly while I do it.... Yes please! So if I am going to pursue my degree, why not do it in Hawaii?! The women I am meeting in school are a little too young for me mentally I think. Just different phases of life I suppose. Not their fault.
I live on the beach and absolutely love it! Not like in a tent or anything, but in a condo. Figured if I'm going to do it then do it right and live on the beach right? I absolutely love riding around the island in my jeep with the music absurdly loud and singing the incorrect words to the songs at the top of my longs... Awesome! I have two kayaks (one for you :-), and love to throw them on the jeep and just go. Just need someone to go with me at this point but it will happen.
So, I am looking for someone that just wants to hang out and if it moves towards more then I am open to that. I feel that I should be with my best friend as a relationship because all else is going to fade eventually. I imagine finding my best friend will take some time. At the same time I am looking to have fun on my way to finding her. I think that a good first date for online dating is to meet at like starbucks or something cause there are a good amount of people around just in case the woman I meet on Match turns out to be a guy named Tom at Starbucks.... But he's really nice. lol.
I honestly am at a place in my life that I just want to go with the flow. I am driven by my aspirations and take school pretty seriously. I am described as easy going to a fault but my reply to that is this. I think there is a very short list of things that are REALLY important and worth getting worked up or upset about. Most people aren't like that and interpret me as someone who just doesn't care. Which couldn't be farther from the truth. If you can't change something or have no control over something, why let it bother you. Oh well.
I hope that there is someone out there that is interested in getting to know me better. Hope to hear from you soon!!!!
