I'm in my mid-30s, working on the Island of Oahu for the City and County of Honolulu as a civil engineer. I'm a veteran and maintain a connection to the US Army through my job as an Army Reservist Officer. I'm on this site to find a friend or companion. I'm a little afraid of a serious relationship because the last one ended badly, but at the same time, I want to have a nice, romantic date with a sweet woman and see where it leads from that first date on. I'm a little bit of a clown and like to tease the people I like, and I like to laugh. I tend to only laugh at myself if I'm the one poking fun, but a woman who makes me feel secure will be able to join in on the laughs too. I'm a little uptight, but the right woman will be able to unwind me, and will find a nice, fun guy to hang out with.
If I wink, I probably found you attractive, but I only email if I think there could be a deeper connection. I also usually wink back, so feel free.