I'm very direct and honest. I believe it to be a virtue rather than a flaw. Sexy can be many things...to me it's a woman who can be confident in heels or in sweats just lounging at home. Looking for a woman that does not take herself too seriously.Life is way too short and should be experienced to the fullest.. I'm definitely looking for a woman that can relate to that way of thinking. A little mishevious yet down to earth at the same time.