I wish I had the motivation I have now ten years ago. I was slow to become a functioning adult. The first half of my twenty’s were fun and unproductive. I spent the second half of them climbing out of the hole I had dug. I always thought "As long as you do something before you turn 30." Of course, I procrastinated till I was 29.
I enjoy my job but I don’t see it as being the last thing I do. I have bigger fish to fry. For now the experience and knowledge I am gaining are far more valuable than anything I learned in college. I plan on starting my own company or becoming an inventor (lol, really).
I have never felt the need to be the alpha male because I am content to do my own thing. That in no way means that I have a problem standing up for myself, others or what I believe in. I just feel no need to participate in all the pissing contests I see going on around me. I am not vindictive (except in traffic), greedy or stubborn (although those characteristics do run in my family). If presented with a better argument, I have no problem accepting it. If I am wrong, I apologize. I do have some stereotypical male characteristic though. I am good with my hands, can fix things and am chivalrous.
Also it should be noted that I have a strange, maybe even twisted sense of humor. Some might even call it dark. Regardless, its not for everybody. It often does not convey well online. That's my disclaimer.
WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR:
I would like to meet a woman who at very least has a solid plan for her future but ideally one who is already established life and career wise. She would be close to or more intelligent than myself, as well as on the slim side (large women don’t do it for me, sorry). Most importantly, she is not selfish and does not play games. Those are deal breakers.