Every time I look at this and see what I wrote yesterday, I realize that I'm not describing myself very well at all so, I keep adding more each day. Stick around, this might be an Auto-biography by Xmas ;)
Looking for someone to help complete my life "as no man is an island unto himself" and look toward a long term relationship. Life is not meant to be spent alone, we will all know this eventually. Doesn't mean that I want you checking on me in the Man-cave every 30 mins, alright ;). I do like some piece and quiet and plan on giving you the same space.
I tend to be fairly serious on the surface but I desire a strong woman who can understand there's many more than 1 page in a book. I can be funny on a 1-on-1 basis but not in a stand-up act and entertain the crowd kind of way. I lean toward the sarcasm, dry humor, and being a smart-ass w/humor but never belittling anyone.
A relationship needs time to grow but I feel we need discuss a lot of important personal life issues sooner than later; with in a few months to see our expectations and dreams are acceptable to the other. So after we think we might have something nice, we should see if we want the same things in life, mostly, right ;)
So, explaining the way that I am: I do know that I can be difficult because I like things done my way usually. Key-word, "usually" I'm not a control freak. On the flip side, I can compromise if needed. I'm a gentleman. My rule is that on a date, you are Not Allowed to open Any doors for yourself; I will open every door from the car to the restaurant and pull your chair out for you. I will give you a lot of attention but not smother you daily because I desire self-time for me also. I dress nice to very nice and really desire, ask and expect a woman to dress to impress both of us, to be enticing and exciting. I'm affectionate and desire a woman who likes my PDA moments and UnInhibited ways but also strong enough to get what she wants.
I am very big on clear communication and loathe misunderstandings for the avoidable stress that they bring, but people do have to "learn-each-other" too. I just don't like stress and arguing so I won't do it for he'll of it as some will. What I will do is to try very to explain my view on either what I did or how I feel about something while I listen to your view point. If we didn't agree the second time around, I might try to explain it a again with a new version/analogy because I want to know that I did everything possible to be clear and equally to make sure that I understand what you're telling me. I don't like drama.
So reading other people's profiles I read things I realize that there's another topic that I didn't cover or mention. I wanted to expand on, "I'm affectionate". When we relax at my place, I like to have my girl sitting in my lap and turned partially toward me. I like being physically close because I understand, that for me, it brings emotional closeness. Likewise, I can't do a long distance, next State over relationship. I need to see you.
SPORTS: No, I am Not a sports nut. I'm too busy and I don't even allow myself a TV line because I'm a TV-aholic. I have a TV just to watch a DVD sometimes. I do like football and I want to see a few games at least and if I don't get to watch the Super Bowl, I'll be ticked off; "ain't no damn reason I can't watch at least 1 game start to finish and it better always be that one!"
I like watching MMA and NASCAR & Formula-1 if I'm lucky enough to be in front of a TV while its on. I can't watch baseball or basketball, it's too slow or too repetitive. If you were a sports nut, I'd make some time to watch it with though...while I try to distract you from it ;)
How about some questions from the Audience??
Yes, You there, the gorgeous girl how thinks I'm making something up or holding back. What was the thought that you just had?
Don't be shy; confidence is very sexy...