So I'm not the BEST at talking about myself, especially on something like this but I'll give it a whirl. I love my family and friends very much...my GOOD friends I can count on less than both my hands that's for sure. But my friendships and all relationships are extremely important to me. Sometimes that works against me but it's just how I am....
I have lived a full life so far...all that's been missing is this partner in my life. It's not that I can't be alone or have that kind of "girly" issue. I have taken care of myself and others a lot in my life and really just realize that all that is missing is someone I don't have to worry about spending too much or too little time with. Someone where that isn't an issue. Everyone needs space. Everyone wants "girls nights" and "guys nights". I do want to start working towards sharing a life WITH someone now, not just living in each other's worlds. Dating is hard enough right??? :)
I would hope my "match" would be adventurous, have their life together enough where if we wake up one day and decide let's hop in the car and head out on a camping trip or down south to live it up in San Diego we could do that...have a good sense of humor cuz if you're not laughing anymore in your relationship that's a BIG deal...be romantic, and I don't mean in the cheesy, girlie movie way. Every woman is different and you should know what makes your woman smile that special smile....realize that the older you get the more that you're gonna meet people that have lived life and may have issues, you can't change people...be able to hang out with each other's friends...that is a BIG one. I want my 2nd family which happens to be my close friends to be able to all go out together and enjoy it.
Does that sound like I'm too serious? :) I'm really not....I'm a beer drinking, sports watching lady that sometimes swears like a sailor...I'm a bartender, I'm sorry! So 'nuf said!!!