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We knew so little about each other when we were in love in Paris. If left that way then maybe we'll remember those days, and not Casablanca.

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35 year old man
Simi Valley, California, United States

Seeking:
women 30-40
Within:
50 Miles of Simi Valley, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

For starters, I think I have a pretty good sense of humor and definitely love to laugh. I LOVE to cook, as well as cook for others. It's extremely relaxing for me, and to date I've found no other thing in life that brings such joy to people than good food. I surf and like being at the beach in general. I enjoy playing ice hockey and riding my bike on the weekends. I also play the guitar as well as sing. Whether I'm any good, however, is a decision I normally leave up to my audience. There are, of course, tons of other things I'm interested in and what I'm doing at any given moment is normally dependent on my mood.

I love to travel, and while I'm not afforded as much time as I would like to do so these days, I try and get out the door as often as possible. I've been to Hawaii, Australia, Montreal, British Columbia, Arizona. Heck, I've even gone as far as San Diego. I know, I know... ramblin' man.

I'm independent and embrace the responsibilities life has given me so far. I'm confident in myself and what I have to offer which also lends itself nicely to having no problem with being assertive. I know what I want in life and I don't have any reservations about putting in the effort to obtain those things. Trust and communication are very important to me as well. If we can't talk, we can't grow.

I am also a dad, albeit a hot one. I can still let my hair down and enjoy myself, but I'm also very much about owning my role as a father and doing the best I can for my kids. Having said that, I've found that it's a bit more of a challenge meeting people when you have kids, so if you're freaked out in the slightest (please don't be) I guess I understand. But I can assure you I'm totally normal… most of the time.

I'm looking for a woman who I can develop a close friendship with and fall in love with. Reciprocally, I'm looking for someone who will fall in love with me. I want someone who understands that a relationship, regardless of how perfect it may be, has its ups and downs, but who is willing to stick around and weather any storms together. I'm looking for someone to travel with and have fun with. I'm looking for a woman who will accept me for who I am, with all my faults, and still want to wake up next to me in the morning. I want you to laugh with me and enjoy the little things.

I'm NOT looking for a casual hookup or one night stand. I've got no time for that business and my self respect wouldn't allow for it anyway. At my age and position in life I'm looking for a life partner, pure and simple.

Now I'd like to go ahead and list a few reasons why I think I would be a good partner. If any of these sound good, we might be a good match.

I’m not your ex boyfriend, even if, by coincidence, I happen to have the same name.

I have, like, 17 pounds of imitation crab meat in my freezer right now that we can totally eat.

I’ll cook for you at any hour if you’re hungry. One, because I love to cook, and two, because I don’t always feel like hitting the Arby’s drive through at 1:45am.

You will never come second to video games. I don’t really even like video games. Unless you do, then I’m all about that.

I actually look like my profile pictures.

I’ll do my best to always be on time, but when I’m not, I’ll have a darn good reason for being late.

I love to take long walks along the beach feeding the birds… to the sharks.

I have a dependable car and will totally drive you to get an Orange Julius.

I have absolutely no idea what back hair is.

I don’t have a closet drug, alcohol, womanizing problem that you’ll find out about 6 months into the relationship.

Bottles of wine and cuddling are mandatory on movie nights.

I will make love to your taste buds with the most delicious sea salt chocolate chip cookie you’ve ever tasted.

I will make love to your eardrums with my insanely good and well-crafted taste in music.

There WILL be road trips.

I'm a hoot to hang around with!

:) Thanks for looking

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Playing cards, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Cycling, Swimming, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, Hockey
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

No pets that I claim, but the two fighting squirrels living in the tree in my front yard have certainly made themselves comfortable. I'd also be interested in finding out if keeping a dolphin is legal. Cause honestly, who wouldn't want a dolphin?

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Gemini
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I surf and play hockey. Love to cycle. I'm also the guy with his pants at his ankles in a public urinal. Turns out my sons had the right idea this whole time; it's totally liberating.

Favorite hot spots:

Love Neptune's Net on PCH. Don Cuco's of Simi Valley. Staples Center and LA Live for a Kings game. The beach. Disneyland. San Diego, of course, cause you knew that. I also love Hawaii and Australia. Starbucks has WiFi as well. Great hot spots.

Favorite things:

I love spicy foods. I love to cook. I love to play guitar and spin records. I love being outside, but I also love sleeping in. I love to watch movies. I also love to draw and paint. Was an art major in college.

Last read:

Ender's Game by Orson Scott Card, and 11.22.63 by Stephen King. Highly recommended.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
5'3" (160cms) to 6'0" (182cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Green
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

Updated to reflect honesty and integrity at all times. The updating I mean. I tend to float around.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Graduated on the streets - Im just lucky it had a bike path.

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