I just turned 31. I have been an I.T. Professional for the last seven years. I recently moved to NJ in the last year. I am originally from Philly Suburbs. I work at a school in NJ. I like Movies, Music, and Sports. I go to the Gym. I like to do things outside. I recently bought a motorcycle. I am a social drinker. I like to go out and watch the Phillies, Flyers and Eagles. I like to stay in and watch the games just the same. When I go out to drink socially I prefer a quit Bar with a Pool Table where I know the first name of half the people there, over a Super Loud Super Crowded Situation.. I don’t have any kids or responsibilities besides taking care of myself. Which leaves me with more free time than I know what to do with.. I’m a pretty bright guy. I can hold a conversation. I almost always have something to say. I’ve been told I’m Deep... I’m pretty easy to talk to.
I’ve been dating the same three crazy women off and on for the last Ten years. I was hoping one of these relationships would develop into a situation with potential for the future. I have recently given up on all Three crazy gals. I am also fairly frustrated with the dating scene. It seems that all the women I meet are more interested in dating a guy with No job, who lives with his Mom, has tattoos on his neck, has 3 kids with 3 different women and has 4 other GFs.. A little discouraging to say the least. It seems like everyone is soo concerned with RIGHT NOW with no concern for tomorrow or the day after. There seems to be this idea that I can do whatever i want right now cause one day I’m gonna wake up and magically have the life I’ve always wanted. Which is totally not the way things work.
In my opinion, you figure out what it is that you want. And make the best decisions possible every day to make it happen.
For starters I am looking for the Opposite of what I just described in my situation. If you are the kind of Gal dying to date the Guy banning everything that walks so you can have his 4th baby and move in with his mother that I’m not the Guy for you.
If you like Movies, Music, Sports, Eating and Drinking Socially then we will probably have a good time if nothing else.
So I am looking for something Fresh. I am very new to this Online situation. My day to day is kind of rinse and repeat so I honestly don’t Meet many Single Women in my age Pool.. That being said I am taking measures to both break me out of my normal routine and hopefully introduce me to new social situations. I just spent 2 hours creating this account hopeful something good come from this : )