I'm a realist. I'm not going to sugarcoat anything, or make you fall in love with somebody who thinks up all these enticing wonderful quality fantasies I possess. I'm past the whole infatuation thing that everyone keeps searching for after realizing that person isn't really who they claim to be. Everyone wants to claim to be something worth falling for, but wouldn't it be worth alot more knowing somebody accepted you for you? Flaws & all & still valued you & respected you for being completely honest? Look at how much heartbreak you just saved yourself, I'm sure alot of them will learn the real you & hit the ground running, as they should because in the end we all need that one person that loves us & accepts us for who we are, not what we hope others perceive us to be.