Let me tell you what I know about relationships. What I have lived and learned on my journey. It really is very simple. In front of you is a piano. On that piano are the keys that define your needs and wants in a relationship. They are all the things in a relationship that make you feel loved, honored, adored, cherished, needed, wanted, appreciated, safe and whole.
Your first task is to know your own keys. Maybe you love to be touched….as do I. You love to hold hands as you stroll down the sidewalk. You feel so incredible when your mate compliments you. You love to kiss. The kind that is close, soft, loving, so romantic as your lips gently touch with whispers of love talk….I love that….!!! Perhaps one of your keys is you love to be acknowledge when you are apart from your mate. He gives you a phone call in the morning as you wake up to say “Good morning my love”. Or, just a simple “Hi babe, I miss you” in the middle of the day. That makes me feel adored…..how about you? These keys are all your emotional and physical needs. Like the need to feel and be told you are loved and the need to know your mate is proud of you. The need to feel desired……a must for me…how about you? I love to embrace her as I first see her again. A long tender and loving embrace! I am sure you know your own physical needs. All these keys make up what we must have in a love relationship. It is who you are…defined by what you need and want from a mate. Yes, your first task is to know all your keys. Believe me when I tell you...I know “ALL” of mine. Just ask me!
Your next task....is to share ALL your keys with your mate…….and yes your mate needs to do the very same thing with you. I call this very simple process finding someone who is “Aware”. It is one of two characteristics that I am searching for in a mate……a person who is aware of her needs and wants and can openly share them with me….not all at once….but all the time so I will truly know you…truly understand you….truly FEEL who you are and what you need to be loved. To know someone this deep is awesome! It is the foundation for true love!
Here is the interesting part……the part where we all have been and maybe we did not even know it. We were given the “power of choice”…. It was left up to us on how to use it. That power of choice is so incredible that every choice we make in life can change our destinies. Yes…instantly we can change our destinies. This power in each of us is “Godlike”. You turn left instead of right at the corner and your world will change. You mouse clicked “Send” to an email from me on Match and you may change your destiny forever!
I first said that one of the most important characteristics I am looking for in a mate is to be “Aware”. The second is to be “Willing”. This is amazingly simple…but so powerful. To be willing is a choice. We have the power to make that choice. I am searching for a woman who is willing on a daily basis to reach over and “Play My Piano”! Reach over and gently play a short melody or just a few loving notes. Call me in the middle of the day just to say “I love you”. Hold hands in the movies. Whisper gently” in my ear at the restaurant…”you are so sexy tonight”! Know all of me, all of my keys. This is what relationships are all about, finding someone who....on a daily basis, yes…daily basis wants to play your piano. Finding someone who wants to make you feel loved, honored, adored, cherished, needed, wanted, appreciated, safe and whole every single day. It is a choice. LOVE IS A VERB. You do it to someone by choice. You feel it from someone by their choice to make you feel that way. AWESOME!
To be "AWARE" and "WILLING" in a relationship shall define your destiny!!!