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46 year old man
Chicago, Illinois, United States

Seeking:
women 39-43
Within:
50 Miles of Chicago, Illinois, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Asian, Other
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Agnostic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

'To love, it is not to look at one another, it is to look together in the same direction.'
Saint-Exupery.

I am fit and I look much younger than I actually am. I am looking for a nonjudgmental person who is willing to look beyond the media stereotypes. Since I write software that runs on corporate databases for a living, I tend to have a soft spot for someone with strong intellectual curiosities.

My coworkers and friends are often surprised when I tell them that I have an extensive network of close relatives living in Europe and Australia. Some of the happiest periods of my life had been those long summer vacations and Christmas breaks in Brittany when I was a college student. This is probably the reason I view the world differently today and prefer to travel abroad. I love exploring foreign places that have long history and are steeped in tradition (Paris, Rennes, Lyon, Geneva, Rome, Florence, Verona, Venice, just to name a few) and I travel light. At the moment, I am thinking of Melbourne, Nara and Kyoto. If you like backpacking abroad, sleeping at hostels and sampling street foods, you've found the right guy.

I do go to live concerts often because I am open to a wide variety of musical genres. To give you an idea, off the top of my head, I love: Beethoven, Tadao Sawai, Ali Farka Toure, Gotan Project, Mahler, Alash, Brahms, Ledward Kaapana, Chopin, Rafi Malkiel Quintet, Tinariwen, Miyako Harumi, Ravi Shankar, Piaf, Bach, Teresa Teng, Orlando Cachaito Lopez, Boney M, Agatsuma, Shakin Arrows, Fats Domino, and way too many to list here. The BBC and NPR are the best sources when it comes to exploring world music. I've picked up a number of recommendations from their websites. In most cases, these bands come from obscure and far away places that I am not sure what genre they belong to. Nevertheless, I find their musical ideas exceptionally refreshing.

My family and friends think I am picky about food. In a sense, this is true because I don't tolerate artificial ingredients and carcinogens. At a restaurant, if the ingredients are fresh and the chef puts a great deal of effort into the dish, I'll try it. As for desserts and snacks, I have a craving for French pastries, especially entremets. Unfortunately, it's so hard to find an authentic patisserie in Chicago. So far, I have found only one place and I am constantly on the prowl for a few more, for backups :-)

Still reading? Good, you've made it this far which means you either (a) really love to read or (b) have found something you like. I hope it's both (a) and (b). So here comes the best part: I don't mind cooking, cleaning, walking your dog, doing the laundry, waiting for you as you try on shoes or clothes, picking you up late at night if you're too drunk to drive home from one of your girls' nights out (it's okay as long as you don't make a habit out of it), giving you a foot massage after a long walk, and _fill in the blanks_. Now, do we have a deal or what?

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

My younger siblings and I have had dogs, birds, fishes, an iguana, turtles and crickets as pets. Sorry, I don't have any experience with cats.

Political views:
Non-conformist
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
University of Illinois at Chicago, Chicago, IL
For fun:

Watching Youtube with my little nieces, walking in the park, conversations at a neighborhood cafe, exploring Chicago, brewing tea, washing dishes, fixing anything, drafting, folding clothes, and all the little things that seem mundane to most people.

Favorite hot spots:

Libraries, bookstores, museums, art galleries, concert halls, parks, nature preserves and hardware stores.

Favorite things:

BBC Horizon, NPR, PBS, Wikipedia, tablet, camera, how-to books and many more out there that I have not come across. Why would I favor only a few things? Life would have been dreadful if I were to be able to list all my favorite things here.

Last read:

My Stroke of Insight by Jill Bolte Taylor, an interesting perspective from a brain scientist, but personally, I identify much more with the characters in novels written by Kafka, Hermann Hesse, Thomas Mann, Albert Camus and Herman Melville.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 5'5" (165cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Architecture / Interior design

I develop database software for a living. It is an art in its own right.

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian, Other
Asian, White / Caucasian

Multicultural Earthian from the Blue Planet.

Faith:
Agnostic
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

I was brought up as a protestant; however, I am not religious at this point.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Some college, Bachelors degree

I have a natural talent for painting. I started college majoring in Art but switched to statistics and computer science to earn a living. As it turns out, computer programming is an art. You start with a blank screen instead of a blank canvas.

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