I will start with this quote: “It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.” - Andre Gide
I will begin by saying these, just to be clear of who I am, or better yet WHO I AM NOT, and briefly share with you ladies that would be interested to know more about me after reading beyond this point, I say these without intentions to offend, or be rude,: I am not in Match to disrespect, or waste anyone’s time, not here to hook up, or date around, I want to meet quality, not quantity, I am not going to lie, exaggerate or extend the truth about me, what I’ve done or do in my life, I will not be dishonest or shaddy, I’ll always say what I mean, and mean what I say. If you are still reading, then I promise that you will not be disappointed by me. Please continue reading, and thank you for taking the time and interest to get to this point.
I am a divorced father of 3, 2 girls 18, and 21, and my boy 12, my kids, and family are my life, which I have a very close relationship with, to my kids I am Mr. Mom, because I’ve cared, raised and have been involved in my their life’s since they were born.
I am proactive, goal oriented, responsible, problem solver, and self-sufficient, meaning I take care of myself and those around me: do my own laundry, LOVE to cook, and entertain, mostly every evening I make dinner for my kids, and the weekends breakfast is always a must, a great opportunity to spoil them, and spend some quality time together. I am simple minded that avoids complicating things, and try making life as easy as possible, easy to please and get along with, always try to keep a positive outlook in life, in general I always see the glass half way full.
When it comes to relationships, I ALWAYS focus on my better half, and pay close attention to details, always doing nice little things; giving roses, or flowers, romantic notes, or greeting cards, on the weekends is breakfast in bed, basically doing those meaningful little details that clearly say “I Care, you come first in my life”. One other thing I enjoy is making people laugh, and make sure to have a good time.
I am positive, and try to see the good side in everything, and everyone I meet, never judge anyone, I see, and appreciate people, for who they are, one thought that I’ve shared with my kids, and family is “Be the very best you can be in all aspects of your life, the best son/daughter, best husband/wife, friend, overall the best person you can be, at the end we all will have to respond for our own actions, and nothing we do, or say can ever be justified by other people’s actions toward, or against us, and EVERYTHING we do, be done to come from the kindness of our hearts without ANY expectations in return”.
Who I’m looking for:
I am in Match without any set expectations, but I do know who I want to meet, and what I am looking for, so first, and most importantly I am looking to meet someone who’s fun, positive, outgoing, honest, with a great sense of humor, and easy to talk to, someone that will not be judgmental, someone that have or share similar interests as I do, and want to get to know me, but most important to allow me to get to know her to building a good, solid friendship, after that life and fate will take over.
I will end with: “Honesty, communication, and understanding are the key to the beginning of every great, healthy and solid relationship that will last a lifetime, and beyond” – by Paul V.