...But I've got all the time for you, Love (DMB)
Strangers have wondered why you are still single ...Friends know it's because you've been waiting for me.
MY GENERAL POLICY:
Know who you are what you want. You are straight with yourself on what you are capable of contributing to a relationship AND what you are WILLING to contribute. Folks often want more than they are willing to give in return - - while you may find a partner who will put up with that, it truly doesn't make for a rewarding relationship. Visualize the kind of relationship you want then look to see what kind of partners it requires. Decide if you are up to BEING that kind of partner; if not you must change the other variable - - the kind of relationship you seek. You can come at the equation from either direction, but the math still has to work out. Want a great relationship?? Then be an active stand for proactively contributing to one. :)
Intellectual, playful AND fun...
Yes, I look like my pictures. More at POF; search seul poisson.
I can sport a cap ponytail in one moment, gracing heels and a little black dress in the next. I enjoy an outdoor hike with my dog, a cross-country roadtrip, slow dancing at home, a social soiree, fires on the beach.
I am as smart as I am sexy as I am sophisticated as I am simple. ...And as I am complex.
I shoot straight; I want the same in return.
You are smiling in your profile pic :) You have content in your description which is thoughtful.
AND IF you write well... THAT's a turn on!! Cerebral stimulation - - very hot!!
Your solid inner strength recognizes mine.
You can separate passion from drama; you think making out with the right person can be sexy as hell; you're unabashedly open AND HAVE THE CAPACITY to fall in love, without being desperate or dependent; you have what it takes to still be in love, appreciate and value your partner long after the typical 2 year shelf-life; you have character and light up in finding the same in a counter; she is the first one you want to share everything with - - including your time and adventures; and you are self-aware, having matured beyond a me-lationship, and understand a we-lationship.
You're flexible and adaptable.
Maybe you're handy. Hopefully you're creative. And perhaps you have an imagination that yearns for a playmate ...or at least appreciates my effervescent whimsy. Are you an entrepreneur? I am a sucker for a guy with rhythm. And you smell ...awesome. You're witty rather than sarcastic. You value great chemistry over geographic convenience; you will work the latter out for the former. Your personae is warm, your smile melts me, your charisma captivates me. You prefer to stay in bed with me than to rise early. You are 'attraction' on many levels.
Your eyes smile.
Your attitude is a combination of upbeat, steady, introspective.
People like you, including children - - not that we have to have any, but they are a good judge of fun genuine character.
You appreciate and value the importance of appreciating and valuing what's important.
No one completes you. You complete yourself.
You like the idea of a relationship, not just because of what it gives you, but equally because of what you are when you give to it.
You respect love as a privilege.
And relationships are a priority to you.
My EQUAL... An extraordinary partner pursuing the same.
A spark, chemistry, romance connection... epic romance, great passion, extraordinary partnership.
A full-time playmate for long term adventures.
BUT CAN YOU BRING IT??!
Effort and enthusiasm, romance AND a killer smile
Tell me what you've got to bring to a relationship ...and what you CHOOSE to bring to one - - and I don't mean "stuff" - - I mean what's left when all the "stuff" is stripped away ...or perhaps what makes the "stuff" secondary to begin with.