I feel there's some self selection for folks who join this site. Who's going to say I'm an introverted nerd that doesn't hike, chain smokes and plays with cats all day? Most say they're open minded, I'm curious about people and their stories so I ask a lot of questions. Everyone says sense of humor, but really, its saying my sense of humor and that applies here and mine's a combo of loud, outgoing, witty and dry. Works for some, not for others. We all want to try new things, that's why we're on here, but there's some sense of balance here. Yeah, i'll take a random road trip through the south or eat something I've never heard of, but no I'm not going to jump off a cliff with you given a parachute and a prayer, go find the Abercrombie guy for that. I'm loud, outgoing, a bit of an entertainer and from what my friends say and have a unique and somewhat overwhelming personality. An acquired taste, but genuinely deep, introspective and I'll skip some modesty here and say there's a level of intellect and education that I have and I'm looking for an equal if not way better. Who doesn't want a strong, confident, brilliant, educated, funny woman in their lives?
Oh, and if you have "duck face" in any photos, automatic deal breaker....no seriously, let's not bother.