I have a "realist" approach to most relationships (constantly seeing people settle for the wrong person, for the wrong reasons then being unhappy, unfulfilled, miserable and/or divorced). I do believe the right person is out there for all of us worth waiting for. I'm hoping chivalry is not completely dead I do believe in "happily ever after."
I am a blond yet I DO have a brain. I can be fairly opinionated, outspoken, and rarely am I at a loss of words. I wear my heart on my sleeve and good, bad, or indifferent, I'll usually tell you what it is, that’s on my mind. I appreciate the same from other people. Oh, and 9 times out of 10, I am RIGHT. ;)
I am fun, adventurous, like taking risks/ challenges, and prefer not to live with any regrets. Dare me to jump out of a plane on a first date? Done it. Next? I appreciate life being unpredictable, at times. I try to learn and grow from my mistakes. I realize that everything happens for a reason and nothing worth having, comes without a struggle.
I'd say I am a bit of an overachiever and always have been. I have a strong work ethic and appreciate being around others who are the same. Goals, ambition, motivation, and intellect are much more important to me than how many shots you did at the bar the night before or how much weight you lifted at the gym today. Don't get me wrong, I appreciate a "healthy" looking man, but if you cannot hold a decent conversation over a cocktail, things could get AWKWARD....... and I am not a fan of awkward situations. A sense of humor is an absolute MUST. I enjoy good banter and witty conversations.
I realize that a lot of people try extra hard to be on their "best behavior" in the beginning... Why not just be the REAL YOU from the start?!