Ok about me. I'm not a native Californian. I was born, and raised in St. Louis, Mo. I went to a Catholic Grade School, and a Catholic High School. Learned how to respect people, and ladies more importantly. I always open the door for a lady, a perfect gentleman, sweet, kind, and a true romantic. So I'm new at this online dating. What I want out of a lady is to be honest, a best friend, and trustworthy that I can share the rest of my life with. I love to travel, especially on cruise ships. i have been fortunate enough to see a lot of the world, but there are some places I haven't seen, so I would like to share a romantic cruise with my lady to see a lot more of the world. i realize that life is too short not to enjoy even the simple things in life. I like trips to the wineries, love to exercise. I used to play baseball, hockey, softball,indoor, and outdoor soccer, so I was always competitive growing up. Roller blading on the beach, or riding my bike, or just exercising at the gym, either lifting weights, or being on the stair master. My ideal of a romantic date is getting all dressed up, and going out to a nice dinner, or just staying at home, and cooking a nice meal for my lady. Bringing her roses, or a bouquet of flowers, lighting candles, giving her a nice massage after she has had a long day at work, and making her a nice warm bath. So if there are any ladies out there that would like to be completely spoiled in all forms, please let me know.