I am a 44 yr old swm living in Tempe AZ. I know my photos make me look serious. I have very few photos of myself and I smile all the time and have been told I look much better in person...I hope that's true. Also...not to sound cynical, but there is so much insincerity and unkindness on this site. I respond to everyone with kindness, even if they are not someone I would see myself dating. I think many people, especially the "beautiful people", get so much response that they forget that the other people don't know them, they just are reacting to the physical....which doesn't mean they have anything positive inside. Also....if you are trying to "find yourself" after a divorce...go find yourself first, talk to friends, see a psychiatrist, buy a GPS. Or if you just are seeking to develop friendships while dating 10 or 20 guy on this site, then don't respond to me. I only date one person at a time....see if it works out, if it does'nt, then I move on. I teach high school social studies and coach wrestling. I love my job and the kids I work with. I am very athletic and also musically and artistically inclined. I play guitar and have a sideline career sculpting. I like to hike, swim, and take trips to Sedona and the coast. I am looking for a woman to share my life with. I am hoping to develop a serious relationship. I am looking for a woman who makes me feel the "magic" when I look in her eyes, hear her voice, and feel her touch. There are so many things in my life that would be much more fun if I had someone to share my experiences with.I am looking for a woman who is attractive, athletic, compassionate, and intelligent. She must be the kind of person to make the best of any situation and knows how to laugh.