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54 year old man
Cary, North Carolina, United States

Seeking:
women 40-53
Within:
10 Miles of Cary, North Carolina, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (3)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Uncomfortable with this?
Me, too.

I'm very much attuned to a world that includes motion, sight, sound, and smell.

I don't have much faith in finding my Compliment, you, without the benefit of your smell or your movement in time and space.

Still, I'm a hopeful guy, so here goes.

I thought I'd just "run into you.
(Yeah. How's that workin' for me?

I don't have time to "run into" anything except the office, grocery store, my kids' lives and, finally, my bed. And in what "me" time I have, I'm finding that me, alone, isn't getting it. I'd love to have someone to thrive with in that time in a mutually significant way.

One of my favorite things is looking across the room into your eyes and knowing "you know what I know" about the both of us. And that "knowing" might be as simple as... an analogy to now, a feeling from the past, a heartbeat yet to come... or as complex as every last thing you did last summer--which you HAVE already told me.

Tell me again, anyway. (I am paying attention to your story, it's just that your neck... actually that place where your neck and your ear and your hair kind of gets all intertwined and... well, it's distracting me at the moment. And while you're talking to me, would you please stop adjusting your.... YES. I heard you. "June. The beach." Go on...)

-THAT-
I miss that

So, how'd I get here? Just like you did.

1) I had it all planned and God laughed cheerfully at my Certainty while He intervened new path continues from here.

2) I trusted somebody (which is a good thing--sometimes the only thing,) and I found out that I'll have to place THAT trust somewhere else now. (Hey, I'm still Trusting... I've just learned that the ability to trust, and how fully I CAN trust is based in ME... That's my gift to me.)

I'm not sure where I'll be in 5 years, but hopefully with you--someone worth every second of the time it takes to get us there. I'm done with the dark. I'm fine when I'm alone... even in the dark. (But I'm better there when I'm not....) The only darkness I allow now is the natural one from twilight to twilight. Not the movie, the astronomical phenomenon. I do love the moon and the stars....

All relationships are challenging. Knowing me won't be any different. I've been through a lot, done a lot, but I'm not sour on hope and the future. These four remain - faith, hope, love, and the rarely mentioned one, time.

What do you think?

Can you bend Time? Are you THAT superwoman?

No?

Then which superwoman are you? Mom? Sis? The ultimate Businesswoman, Educator, Professional, Volunteer, Sports Star?

No?

More of a performer? Bookworm? Butterfly? (Still in the chrysalis?)

You can be any/all and still lock my glance across the room.

I suppose I should mention what just won't get my attention. I'm not very much into what I call the Shallow-End of the Social Pool. I do get to a live performance, great show or sporting event, but I do have three thirsty kids and a life--so you won't find me in a club or the local hot spot more than once in a blue moon. (I probably got dragged there by my guys -- who keep telling me I won't find company on my computer.)

And one more thing... I'm SERIOUS about the word conservative in my profile... in faith and politics. If you're where all you've learned and experienced has you Liberal or Liberal-leaning, we don't match.

And I need someone who can sit next to me in church and not look at her watch.

I'm looking for a traditional gal (who realizes "gal" isn't derogatory) who knows femininity is the other half of masculinity.

Unless we combine the best of both... well....
So, whatchya doing with your half?

NOTE: Only a member on Match, not a subscriber, so I don't get mail here. How clever are you?

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Gardening/Landscaping, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Cycling, Football, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I don't own a pet right now. (It may take me a little more time to get over the Best Dog Ever. Setter/Brittany mix. Yes, I know yours is awesome. So was Max....)

Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
Cancer
College:
The University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill, Chapel Hill, NC
For fun:

Bicycling, Photography, Writing, GOOD Movies & TV, REALLY Good books, cooking-on-the-fly, theater, showing & teaching my kids things (new & favs,) Holidays, anywhere near water (still or moving.)

Favorite hot spots:

NC OBX, any dramatic/profound view (with a fire!) I liked visiting CA (overrated), DC, NY. Loved Yosemite & Italy (would love to revisit either.) One day-France? Israel? Cuisine: Tex-Mex, Asian, German. Good Wine (Red!), Better Coffee (Dark!)

Favorite things:

Being my kids' dad, comfort food (Southern style,) the change of the seasons, being amazed by people/places/things, cycling the roads of NC, TV: Sports, House, Burn Notice, Politics, DVD's, unless it's really cold, I love the wind....

Last read:

Demonic - Ann Coulter, The 5000 Year Leap - Lee Skousen, Liberty & Tyranny - Mark Levin, Anything by Glenn Beck, P.J. O'Rourke, Dean Koontz. Various translations of the Bible. My own stories and scripts.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 5'8" (172cms)
Body type:
About average
No preference
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Light brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Artistic / Creative / Performance
No preference

I'm an instructional designer. But they don't really have a category for what I _AM_... I suppose the Match Team thought Jack-of-all-Trades was too sexist or too vague to include as a stand-alone category.

Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (3)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

English Scotch Irish. Family from NC foothills and Tidewater VA.
(About that "Want kids:" thing above.... Why isn't there a category for "I have pretty much all I NEED, but I'd be happy to SHARE more" with someone who already has kids?)

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Protestant

Conservative in faith/politics b/c State must be separate from Church. I have a Savior. I'm still seeking good gov't. You: Liberal/Liberal-leaning, we don't match. (You: truly "middle of the road," that tells me you aren't paying attention.)

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

College (B.A.) But I never really began learning the important things in life until I had children. Then I REALLY began learning in earnest....

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