I have created a very abundant life which I am grateful for. A few of life's pleasures that I would love to share with a partner:
Music, Magic, Love's Madness, The Arts; Poetry, Haiku, Sculpture, Photography, Visual Imagery, Theatre, Art Openings, Museums, Creative Collaboration, Dancing, Deep Grooves, Ambient Beats Mad Pianists, jazz fanatics
Wit, humor, hilarity, being clearly obscure, seeing the invisible, listening to what is not being said, juicy conversations, genuine people, sparkly people, tacky people, funny people with accents.
The blueness of dawn, the fiery orange of dusk, Lucid dreaming, red wine, intimacy, a naked soak in a hot spring, a seductive look, a tender embrace, a long kiss, massages, sleeping in on Sunday mornings, staring into another's eyes and seeing my reflection, chemistry, candlelight, cuddling.
The sublime, the macabre, working undercover, observing the observer, surrendering to something higher, growing into the answers, patience,epiphanies, manifestations, breaking it down, building it up, philosophy, spiritual studies,overcoming fears, transcending, evolving, law of physics, Taoism, silence
Sunny bohemian afternoons, Avant-Garde nights, playful friendship, partners in crime, soul mates, teachers, loving families, life's lessons, tears of joy, smiling while in pain, choosing happiness, loving the nothingness of it all.
"I have learned to not worry about love but to honor its coming with all my heart"
The right man for me:
Will resonate with me, he is special and I will immediately recognize it. He is open to attracting his life long partner. Desires love, commitment, respect, communication, sharing creating an amazing life with one special woman. Laughter, playfulness and a similar sense of humor balances and brings a lightness to a partnership.
Has life experience and has gained emotional intelligence & maturity to know what he needs from a partnership and is ready to find a woman who is at the same place. Is able to communicate, express his needs, listen to mine, compromise and forgive, respecting that I am able to do the same. Understands conflict resolution and that passion & desire are still there and grows deeper despite it all. Loves my strength of spirit and makes me feel safe to be vulnerable, as I am able to give this equally. I am very loyal, committed, respectful and grateful towards a partner who shares a life with me. It is a blessing and deserves to be treated that way.
I love a man that knows what it takes to build a healthy relationship and is ready. I desire kindness, empathy, affection, honesty respect. Feeling mentally, spiritual physically close and connected is important to me in partnership. That gets built over time with communication, honesty and a desire to compromise. To understand and be understood by your partner is important. Mature Partners don't create drama, but desire harmony. A man that knows true confidence does not equate a superiority complex and a strong man leads by example. A man with a strength of character that encourages and protects emotionally, does not criticize or project. A man who is comfortable being alone with himself yet chooses to share his life with a partner. My ideal partner loves that I travel the world as much as I love being a homebody, creating an amazing home environment. I love an attentive, authentic man who likes to kiss & hug.
If you have intimacy issues, anger issues, can not communicate or have fears of commitment, I guarantee you we are not a match. Good mental health is key. If you like the word "we" and treat me great (as we both deserve) I'll treat you like a king!
I believe that romance can deepen over the years when two people are right for each other and work at it. My folks have been married 52 years and still get a kick out of each other, laughing & teasing one another to this day. Romance and passion can survive.